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So I'm a bisexual girl and I have a straight boyfriend. I'm a bit flirty but I don't take it too far. But one time I did and the guy sent me a sexual video. I didn't think he would tbh mostly cos the guy is gay. I didn't think it was too much of an issue as cos he was gay but my bf asked about me and the guy (he knows hes gay) and I was fully honest about what happened. My bf was very upset about it and I get why and I feel like **** for it. My question is does that really count as cheating? I like my bf a lot and wouldnt do anything on purpose to hurt him and I wouldnt cheat knowingly. Please don't judge me too harshly x
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Not technically cheating, but very much inappropriate behaviour and the end result is often the same. You're generally not going to be happy at your partner chatting up other guys for wang pics regardless of the excuse.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I'm a bisexual girl and I have a straight boyfriend. I'm a bit flirty but I don't take it too far. But one time I did and the guy sent me a sexual video. I didn't think he would tbh mostly cos the guy is gay. I didn't think it was too much of an issue as cos he was gay but my bf asked about me and the guy (he knows hes gay) and I was fully honest about what happened. My bf was very upset about it and I get why and I feel like **** for it. My question is does that really count as cheating? I like my bf a lot and wouldnt do anything on purpose to hurt him and I wouldnt cheat knowingly. Please don't judge me too harshly x
I need more information to decide. How did you respond to the sexual video?
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You and your boyfriend draw the line for what is considered cheating and if he thinks it's cheating then you've probably crossed that line.

Flirting with people isn't okay when you're in a relationship and the fact that you took it as far as receiving a sexual video goes to show that you are probably taking it further than you initially planned.
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Cash me outside, how bout dat?
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Yeah I wouldn’t call that cheating. Definitely not great tho because imagine if your boyfriend had done the same thing. Maybe ask yourself if you’re getting bored if you’ve been together a while. I get that in long term relationships sometimes you get a lil flirty especially if you’re young, but that sounds like it got wayyy out hand. Just reassure him and don’t do that again lmao
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I'm a bisexual girl and I have a straight boyfriend. I'm a bit flirty but I don't take it too far. But one time I did and the guy sent me a sexual video. I didn't think he would tbh mostly cos the guy is gay. I didn't think it was too much of an issue as cos he was gay but my bf asked about me and the guy (he knows hes gay) and I was fully honest about what happened. My bf was very upset about it and I get why and I feel like **** for it. My question is does that really count as cheating? I like my bf a lot and wouldnt do anything on purpose to hurt him and I wouldnt cheat knowingly. Please don't judge me too harshly x
I mean,not the best thing everr BUT you can make up for it by like going on a fun date and doing random **** togheter . If he is mature enough he will accept your mistake and he will love you forever boom good ending 10/10
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(Original post by DrawTheLine)
I need more information to decide. How did you respond to the sexual video?
what do you mean by that?
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You wouldn’t cheat knowingly ? So that means if You got drunk n cheated that’s okay to you?
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(Original post by Nazmin_888)
what do you mean by that?
When the guy sent you that video what did you do?
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You didn’t cheat but it must hurt him knowing that his girlfriend is flirting with other people. Just think if you were in his position, how would you feel? Best option is to apologise and not flirt with others whilst you’re in a relationship 🕊🍃
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