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I just got my first girlfriend AMA

Go for it, I don't know how to feel really, I'm kinda shocked. I have some history on here so I ain't that unknown, I'm known as the guy who was always desperate and went up to girls in his college :/ It's strange tho, as I REALLY like her but idk if she like me as much, however she says she likes me more than a friend 🤷*♂️, and has referred to me as her boyfriend in chat. Oh well it will be interesting to see how this relationship thing goes. I guess it will be an experience even if it doesn't work out.

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Is her name Lola? And was she a show girl?:holmes:
Original post by Anonymous
Go for it, I don't know how to feel really, I'm kinda shocked. I have some history on here so I ain't that unknown, I'm known as the guy who was always desperate and went up to girls in his college :/ It's strange tho, as I REALLY like her but idk if she like me as much, however she says she likes me more than a friend 🤷*♂️, and has referred to me as her boyfriend in chat. Oh well it will be interesting to see how this relationship thing goes. I guess it will be an experience even if it doesn't work out.


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Original post by 04MR17
Is her name Lola? And was she a show girl?:holmes:


No and no
It will be a learning experience and it depends on the girl.

My first ever 'proper' relationship lasted 3 years which I ended 2 months ago lasted for so long as we were both completely honest to each other, talked **** out etc.

You will learn things as the relationship progresses, hopefully you will learn each others dos and donts and you will have fun.

Also, if your her BF in chat you're in a relationship now you tool :P
Don't objectify woman, treat them as people.
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Original post by SirHotWings
It will be a learning experience and it depends on the girl.

My first ever 'proper' relationship lasted 3 years which I ended 2 months ago lasted for so long as we were both completely honest to each other, talked **** out etc.

You will learn things as the relationship progresses, hopefully you will learn each others dos and donts and you will have fun.

Also, if your her BF in chat you're in a relationship now you tool :P


Yeah but I don't feel like she likes me as much as I like her. It's hard, thats why I'm gonna try and be chill about it. I mean how often do bf and gf's chat per day and ****? I just don't know the boundaries and what is considered too far.
Communicate!

If you don't it won't work, otherwise I'm happy for you :h:
Good lord man, do people even socialise here on TSR :rofl: "How often does bf and gf chat per day" like good lord :lol:
It's true, I can physically feel the desperation pouring out when reading any of your threads aha
Pepsi or Sprite? :pepsi:
Can I get your mums number?
Original post by Anonymous
Go for it, I don't know how to feel really, I'm kinda shocked. I have some history on here so I ain't that unknown, I'm known as the guy who was always desperate and went up to girls in his college :/ It's strange tho, as I REALLY like her but idk if she like me as much, however she says she likes me more than a friend 🤷*♂️, and has referred to me as her boyfriend in chat. Oh well it will be interesting to see how this relationship thing goes. I guess it will be an experience even if it doesn't work out.


What age are you
Original post by Anonymous
Go for it, I don't know how to feel really, I'm kinda shocked. I have some history on here so I ain't that unknown, I'm known as the guy who was always desperate and went up to girls in his college :/ It's strange tho, as I REALLY like her but idk if she like me as much, however she says she likes me more than a friend 🤷*♂️, and has referred to me as her boyfriend in chat. Oh well it will be interesting to see how this relationship thing goes. I guess it will be an experience even if it doesn't work out.


treat her well- theres some jerks out there, don't be one
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah but I don't feel like she likes me as much as I like her. It's hard, thats why I'm gonna try and be chill about it. I mean how often do bf and gf's chat per day and ****? I just don't know the boundaries and what is considered too far.


That's why you need to test the water, start being a tad flirty, perhaps invite her out for a bite to eat sometime. Being chill is a good approach, she will nudge you if she likes you.

Also, I can't answer those last questions as they're open ended. Some people message each other rarely, some people spend every day with the other person (I did with my ex through college, we were inseparable except when we had our own stuff to do). Boundaries are something you have to figure out with the other person, so take it slow, respect each other's boundaries, you will cross these when the time is right. Don't overthink it, me and my ex had never had a proper relationship before so we just figured **** out.

GL out there friend, you can do it!
Original post by Anonymous
and has referred to me as her boyfriend in chat.


...Have you ever spoken to her? Ever had a deep conversation? Or is this some girl you met on Roblox.
Original post by Hiraeth.
Good lord man, do people even socialise here on TSR :rofl: "How often does bf and gf chat per day" like good lord :lol:
It's true, I can physically feel the desperation pouring out when reading any of your threads aha


Tbf, if this guy hasn't had a GF before these are the questions people wonder any way. Just nobody really asks them and lets it happen.
Original post by IWantIPods
Pepsi or Sprite? :pepsi:


If it was Pepsi max and sprite, i would pick Pepsi max. But between Pepsi and sprite its gotta be sprite.
Original post by Anonymous
What age are you


17/18, i would say specifically but i dont wanna give away my identity
Original post by tasminbrooks
treat her well- theres some jerks out there, don't be one


Don't worry I will, I'm a good guy, not a jerk...
Original post by SirHotWings
Tbf, if this guy hasn't had a GF before these are the questions people wonder any way. Just nobody really asks them and lets it happen.


Seriously? Hm, maybe I was narrow minded because me and my ex clicked.

but it just sounds weird-like it suggests you're only allowed to chat for a set amount "only 20 texts and one call max" you know what I mean?

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