She is 22 now, we both live at home with our parents but she is still not making anything of her life. She was fine at school, got average grades had a few friends although she was always very quiet and self concious as a kid didn't even speak until she was 2 years old. She never had a bf and barely spoke a word in her classes. Shes always enjoyed karate shes in a club and still goes twice a week. Anyway she went to sixth form at 17 and things sort of went downhill from there her tutor said she was withdrawn even though she got 3 A levels, low grades. She collapsed at her first day of work and has had like an anxiety ever since, she had had councilling and therapy several times. She started uni at 18 but then quit cause she said she was panicky on the way there she fainted a few times don't know why and then quit, the gp isn't worried about her. She then started a catering job and got sacked because she didn't make the required amount of food.
Basically though ever since she was 18/19 all she has done is lie in bed all day, wonder around the house all night, and go to karate. She has got a job but doesn't go to it, she has no friends at all, has never had a bf and has even admitted to being a virgin lol and she has no social skills. I think shes doing an open university course not sure. She only look about 14 and can't even buy a thunderball ticket without ID. Shes not overweight or anything is petite, healthy and can do 12 full chin ups lol.. more than me.
Although she sounds miserable she does talk with family in the evenings and laugh, take the dog for a walk. She says shes not depresssed but she says she has this constant feeling that she can't move forward in life and she feels bad when she does. My dad is sick of her and constantly calling her a lazy b**** and tells all his friends about her everyone thinks shes a freak even my 7 year old cousin.
Does anyone know why she is like this? I just assume its her personality. What caused her to be like she is?