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Hi this may sound stupid but I’ve noticed my gf has never takes a photo of us together, I was scrolling through her insta and noticed a few mirror selfies of her and her ex together, and then I was scrolling through her phone’s photos (we both were together just scrolling through them in bed) and I noticed she had a few selfies with other guys of them cuddled in bed together and also mirror selfies - all of her holding the phone and being the one to take the photos. I asked who they were and she was just like ‘they’re just guys I dated in the past nothing serious’. I’ve known her for a while and when she was with her ex she also used to post snapchat stories of them together and stuff and she’s never ever done that with me. I’m her longest bf and she’s never ever taken a photo of us together, been together for over a year and the only photos we have together are the ones I’ve taken on my phone.

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Hi this may sound stupid but I’ve noticed my gf has never takes a photo of us together, I was scrolling through her insta and noticed a few mirror selfies of her and her ex together, and then I was scrolling through her phone’s photos (we both were together just scrolling through them in bed) and I noticed she had a few selfies with other guys of them cuddled in bed together and also mirror selfies - all of her holding the phone and being the one to take the photos. I asked who they were and she was just like ‘they’re just guys I dated in the past nothing serious’. I’ve known her for a while and when she was with her ex she also used to post snapchat stories of them together and stuff and she’s never ever done that with me. I’m her longest bf and she’s never ever taken a photo of us together, been together for over a year and the only photos we have together are the ones I’ve taken on my phone.

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Maybe she doesn't feel like she needs to show off on Instagram as she feels like she's in a good relationship. I mean if you were truly happy with someone would you waste time taking unnecessary photos of you together.
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Hi this may sound stupid but I’ve noticed my gf has never takes a photo of us together, I was scrolling through her insta and noticed a few mirror selfies of her and her ex together, and then I was scrolling through her phone’s photos (we both were together just scrolling through them in bed) and I noticed she had a few selfies with other guys of them cuddled in bed together and also mirror selfies - all of her holding the phone and being the one to take the photos. I asked who they were and she was just like ‘they’re just guys I dated in the past nothing serious’. I’ve known her for a while and when she was with her ex she also used to post snapchat stories of them together and stuff and she’s never ever done that with me. I’m her longest bf and she’s never ever taken a photo of us together, been together for over a year and the only photos we have together are the ones I’ve taken on my phone.

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i wouldnt take it personal- she may just not have realised, but make an effort to take pics on your phone
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U ugly
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Maybe she doesn't feel like she needs to show off on Instagram as she feels like she's in a good relationship. I mean if you were truly happy with someone would you waste time taking unnecessary photos of you together.
It takes like 2 seconds to take a pic lmao. Isn’t it nice to have pictures of yourself with friends and partners? Need something to look back on when you get old and complain about how youth is wasted on the young n all that. It’s not wasting time imo
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Maybe she grew up.
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She grew up? I have pics with my bf but only of notable events eg on holiday or at a wedding. We don't just take them randomly.
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If you're really that bothered, why don't you take the pictures? :dontknow:
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Suggest her to take pictures then.
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There are studies showing that the more insecure you are with a relationship, the more likely you will take photos and broadcast them on social media. For example, read these:

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-s...-a7530911.html
https://www.inc.com/john-rampton/8-r...-social-m.html
https://honey.nine.com.au/2017/01/12...r-relationship

I also agree with the past two responses. She probably grew up.
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And feels more secure with you than all the other guys she's taken selfies with.

I would take it as a good sign, at least scientifically/psychologically, and not sweat it.
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Yeah don't feel bad about it, there are a lot of nosy people and it's better to keep your relationship between you and your gf.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi this may sound stupid but I’ve noticed my gf has never takes a photo of us together, I was scrolling through her insta and noticed a few mirror selfies of her and her ex together, and then I was scrolling through her phone’s photos (we both were together just scrolling through them in bed) and I noticed she had a few selfies with other guys of them cuddled in bed together and also mirror selfies - all of her holding the phone and being the one to take the photos. I asked who they were and she was just like ‘they’re just guys I dated in the past nothing serious’. I’ve known her for a while and when she was with her ex she also used to post snapchat stories of them together and stuff and she’s never ever done that with me. I’m her longest bf and she’s never ever taken a photo of us together, been together for over a year and the only photos we have together are the ones I’ve taken on my phone.

What’s everyone’s thoughts?
maybe she's having such a good time with you she forgets to take pictures. I know when i'm really enjoying the company of another person i sort of forget i even have a phone. So you should be happy ! Maybe in the other relationships she was bored and the guy didn't pay much attention to her so she took more pictures?
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U ugly
why did u report me I thought we had something going on here
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why did u report me I thought we had something going on here
I didn’t? :holmes:
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U ugly


savage...


not even a half hearted attempt to sugar coat.

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ngl, after reading the OP I instantly was thinking along those lines too...
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U ugly
u ugly too
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