Urgent: Does he hate me for this!?!?!?!

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So a few months ago, a new girl joined my group of friends and she was incredibly sweet and caring- like a mother figure.
But everything went wrong when she met one of the guys we knew (who i used to talk to regularly on snapchat).
She became obsessed with him and started speaking to him regularly but then one day she came up to us crying saying "he doesn't want me because he heard a disgusting rumour about me"

A lot of other things were said too and we were all trying to comfort her (bear in mind she HAD ONLY KNOWN HIM FOR 2 WEEKS!)
We all found it a bit odd but didn't really think much of it.

Anyway, so she was showing us their messages and the conversation was quite dry, and we all commented saying that's not how he talks to us.
So she wanted to see our conversations- now i had saved our conversation on snapchat (shut up don't judge me it's hilarious) so she asked for my phone and i let her see a bit of it BUT SHE ENDED UP SCROLLING ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP AND READ THE ENTIRE THING.
My other friends were lucky she took so long that they deleted their conversations

(Btw, this guy is very friendly and makes flirty jokes with everyone so this made the girl jealous because he never spoke to her like that)
Anyway so THE POINT IS she saw my messages and i didn't have the guts to just take my phone off her because the girl was in tears and i felt bad for her.


FORWARD TO 3 WEEKS LATER

The guy and I had not spoken for a while. So I decided to send him a snap, and he sent back a short reply (which is very unlike him- he always banters around)
Whenever I saw him in person he wouldn't even look at me or say 'Hi' or ANYTHING which is also uncharacteristic (but he did with all the rest of my friends) so it's as if i don't exist. One time I did approach him while he was with some of my other friends and it was the most awkward interaction ever it still makes me cringe.

So today i said f*** it and approached him and we had a normal but short conversation. Then when I got home I replied to his story on snapchat and he replied "Lool"................................
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BTW: This guy is 23 and I'm 20 years old. We are in uni and he's honestly one of the people I never thought would mean so much to me (as a friend lol) but I really miss our conversations and I don't understand why he is acting so distant.
He's a mature guy and avoids confrontation and arguments so I don't really know if i should ask him to his face what's wrong because he will definitely deny it.
also, don't tell me i'm acting desperate- bc i've been waiting a hella long time between interactions LOOOOOOOOOOOOL ik this is sad but i really miss my friend.

>>>>>>>>>>>AND I THINK THAT THE GIRL WHO WAS OBSESSED WITH HIM TOLD HIM THAT SHE SAW MY CONVERSATION WITH HIM.

I really wanna know but i don't know if i should ask him or just leave it cuz after June I will probably never see him again.
But I still wish we could remain friends at least via snapchat and whatsapp (we have a group chat- which he 'coincidentally' never talks in anymore)
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You 20?!
You are 20 years old?! You sound like a 14 year old

You classify this as "URGENT", girl grow up
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