despise my parents

Not an exageration at all, sadly true. I wish they had never had me , abortion is free in the UK which makes me angrier when I think about it. They sent me to a private school (family member wrote it in will) thats how we afforded it , but I never enjoyed my life in the same manner as the others, I was excluded from dating, wearing fashionable clothes and general day to day fun you people have. I went to university to do pharmacology, they chose this as I was rejected from medicine, I never made any friends on my course or graduated. I recieved nasty comments from flatmates boyfriends about the ugly christmas jumpers my parents made me wear. I am terrible at socialising as a result because my parents excluded me from normal things teens do in UK, I dont even have an idea how to show interest in a man I like. The only thing I know is how to dress on a night out from looking at instagram lol. Please anyone who is pregnant and poor abort your child so they dont suffer the same fate as I do xxxxxx

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Not an exageration at all, sadly true. I wish they had never had me , abortion is free in the UK which makes me angrier when I think about it. They sent me to a private school (family member wrote it in will) thats how we afforded it , but I never enjoyed my life in the same manner as the others, I was excluded from dating, wearing fashionable clothes and general day to day fun you people have. I went to university to do pharmacology, they chose this as I was rejected from medicine, I never made any friends on my course or graduated. I recieved nasty comments from flatmates boyfriends about the ugly christmas jumpers my parents made me wear. I am terrible at socialising as a result because my parents excluded me from normal things teens do in UK, I dont even have an idea how to show interest in a man I like. The only thing I know is how to dress on a night out from looking at instagram lol. Please anyone who is pregnant and poor abort your child so they dont suffer the same fate as I do xxxxxx

I'm so sorry to hear about the pain you went through as a result of your parents.
I understand how it must feel when everyone is judging you and your alone with no one to talk to ... I'm sorry to hear you had not friends or know how to socialise but honestly there is no proper way to socialise... be confident, be yourself/Don't change who you are for someone, be happy and enjoy life now that your 'free'.
If you ever need any advice or want to ask any questions regarding anything you can always ask me!
Please don't advise anyone to abort their child as that's a sad and upsetting thing that no child nor mother should have to go through
Just because sadly you had a childhood and life up until now that was restricted, sad and forced does not mean everyone else has ...

Please think about now!
You can be who you want to be, your am adult! Do what makes you happy! You clearly didn't have the heart for medicine so go into a career you enjoy, go to social gatherings, make friends and automatically you will begin to 'socialise' like everyone else... there is no trick LOL

I strongly advise you to think positively and think of this as the start of a new and happy life, that only you can control ... do what makes you happy! Be a good person, make friends and most of all believe in yourself !

If you ever need to talk let me know and we will sort something out:-)

Good luck!
I hope I could help! :-)

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Original post by Anonymous

Not an exageration at all, sadly true. I wish they had never had me , abortion is free in the UK which makes me angrier when I think about it. They sent me to a private school (family member wrote it in will) thats how we afforded it , but I never enjoyed my life in the same manner as the others, I was excluded from dating, wearing fashionable clothes and general day to day fun you people have. I went to university to do pharmacology, they chose this as I was rejected from medicine, I never made any friends on my course or graduated. I recieved nasty comments from flatmates boyfriends about the ugly christmas jumpers my parents made me wear. I am terrible at socialising as a result because my parents excluded me from normal things teens do in UK, I dont even have an idea how to show interest in a man I like. The only thing I know is how to dress on a night out from looking at instagram lol. Please anyone who is pregnant and poor abort your child so they dont suffer the same fate as I do xxxxxx

Let’s turn all this anger and despite around shall we? I think the best thing about human life is that you can strive to do pretty much anything you want in the future if you put it to heart. Have you talked to your parents about this? You should be the positive change for yourself and that will impact others.

I would strongly advise to never doubt yourself or anyone no matter how deep the situation is because every life is meaningful. To yourself or to others.

You should go out there and forget about the past- volunteer! Get experience where you socialise with others and make friends and see that the change you are making is having a positive impact on others. Volunteering makes me happy for my cause and allows me to just be myself working with others stress-free.

From all this, the one thing I want to mention is to not give up on yourself, but give yourself a chance to see the myriad of opportunities out there for you.

Best wishes from me 👍🏼

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