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I'm not gay but sometimes I get off to gay porn?

im 15 and i know for sure i definitely like girls and would only want to date a girl not a guy. but sometimes I watch gay porn and it actually turns me on and sometimes I think about guys in a sexual way. why would I want to watch gay porn if I am not gay and definitely wouldn't date a guy?

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It is not actually purely focused on females and their parts it is just about the males
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Original post by Anonymous
It is not actually purely focused on females and their parts it is just about the males

wait what do u mean?
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I struggle with this issue myself, I am sexually attracted to men but it's not who I want to be. I want to be attracted to woman and that's what my dreams are, as I am older I want to be in a relationship with a woman, and totally not a man, that would ruin me, I guess I am bisexual or whatever, let's forget all that nonsense. I learned this from the Harry Potter series.

"What matters is the part that we choose to act on, that's who we really are"
Peoples' sexuality is not binary, it's a spectrum. Even for me, I find this varies week-to-week.

So don't worry if you are only really interested in being with women, but sometimes you like to fantasise about men, or have the odd gay experience. It's normal and I am sure many other people are like this, and have been since time in memorial. Remember, there is nothing new under the sun.
I am a girl but I watch gay porn as I don’t like it being about the girls
Original post by Anonymous
im 15 and i know for sure i definitely like girls and would only want to date a girl not a guy. but sometimes I watch gay porn and it actually turns me on and sometimes I think about guys in a sexual way. why would I want to watch gay porn if I am not gay and definitely wouldn't date a guy?


ur def gay bro init, u just fancy men
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Original post by Anonymous
I am a girl but I watch gay porn as I don’t like it being about the girls

same, is it bi-curious or nah
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Original post by Anonymous
im 15 and i know for sure i definitely like girls and would only want to date a girl not a guy. but sometimes I watch gay porn and it actually turns me on and sometimes I think about guys in a sexual way. why would I want to watch gay porn if I am not gay and definitely wouldn't date a guy?


I'm gay myself and wouldn't want a relationship with a girl but sometimes when I'm drunk i'm attracted to girls!
depends how you watch porn, I guess you can "relate" in a sense to what a guy feels more than girls.
Original post by Anonymous
im 15 and i know for sure i definitely like girls and would only want to date a girl not a guy. but sometimes I watch gay porn and it actually turns me on and sometimes I think about guys in a sexual way. why would I want to watch gay porn if I am not gay and definitely wouldn't date a guy?


Sounds pretty GAAAY
Original post by heather250987
Peoples' sexuality is not binary, it's a spectrum. Even for me, I find this varies week-to-week.

So don't worry if you are only really interested in being with women, but sometimes you like to fantasise about men, or have the odd gay experience. It's normal and I am sure many other people are like this, and have been since time in memorial. Remember, there is nothing new under the sun.


Are you joking? Some people... Seek a psychiatrist
Original post by Anonymous
im 15 and i know for sure i definitely like girls and would only want to date a girl not a guy. but sometimes I watch gay porn and it actually turns me on and sometimes I think about guys in a sexual way. why would I want to watch gay porn if I am not gay and definitely wouldn't date a guy?


sexuality is wild. Don't be afraid of it.
Sexuality is a personal thing and it's also fluid. Don't harm anyone and be true to yourself. Further, fantasy and reality are separate things and they may not always mix.
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Original post by Anonymous
im 15 and i know for sure i definitely like girls and would only want to date a girl not a guy. but sometimes I watch gay porn and it actually turns me on and sometimes I think about guys in a sexual way. why would I want to watch gay porn if I am not gay and definitely wouldn't date a guy?

SOMEONES IN DENIAL
If you are aroused by gay sex then you most certainly have homosexual tendencies. That doesn't mean you won't like women, but it does mean that you are probably not straight. Of course, some people experiment when they're your age and become straight (and not closeted) men. I know I did, but I am gay.
Original post by Turpster
I struggle with this issue myself, I am sexually attracted to men but it's not who I want to be. I want to be attracted to woman and that's what my dreams are, as I am older I want to be in a relationship with a woman, and totally not a man, that would ruin me, I guess I am bisexual or whatever, let's forget all that nonsense. I learned this from the Harry Potter series.

"What matters is the part that we choose to act on, that's who we really are"


Suppressing a part of yourself isn't a good Harry Potter metaphor. Doesn't that lead to an obscurial? Just be yourself, man.
Maybe you are just Bi-sexual. I am in similar situation with you as well. Don't worry you are not the only one.
It's called being bi honey. Own it. You have the best of both worlds

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