*"first" kiss with another girl*

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I ramble a lot/probably makes no sense, apologies in advance


So I've kissed guys before and I have kissed a girl before when tipsy, but it wasn't good for me(at allll)
One of my friends, we've always had some sort of weird/sexual vibe/thing for each other. Like she used to joke around about kissing me and we've always talked about wanting to kiss each other. Recently we've been hanging out frequently again and before I went home last night, she did this thing she does with her face, like she bites her lip and everything and it's very sexy and not cringe at allll(thankfully). So I was like don't do that, as she knows I like it and it's frustrating ... so she went on to say how she can't help it and how she was thinking about something, which she eventually confessed that she was thinking about kissing me, and we kept having moments where she was like, "I could've just gone for it .. Now you're probably thinking that it's just kissing but, she said the reason why it probably hasn't happened is that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, which I agree with and the fact that I always chicken out/say no jokingly, even though I'm dying for it(wanted this since year 7, promise I'm not desperate lol). But another reason is that for some reason i'm nervous/scared to do it. Like we've known each other since year 7, and we're now 20, and i feel like because its been sooo long, due to us being in relationships with other/not seeing each other for a while, it has to be good. I haven't had a proper experience of kissing/being with a girl, but she has been with girls her whole life so, I feel like there's a lot to live up to... I know I'm being stupid but any advice on how to not overthink this whole thing / how to approach this would be great...
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I ramble a lot/probably makes no sense, apologies in advance


So I've kissed guys before and I have kissed a girl before when tipsy, but it wasn't good for me(at allll)
One of my friends, we've always had some sort of weird/sexual vibe/thing for each other. Like she used to joke around about kissing me and we've always talked about wanting to kiss each other. Recently we've been hanging out frequently again and before I went home last night, she did this thing she does with her face, like she bites her lip and everything and it's very sexy and not cringe at allll(thankfully). So I was like don't do that, as she knows I like it and it's frustrating ... so she went on to say how she can't help it and how she was thinking about something, which she eventually confessed that she was thinking about kissing me, and we kept having moments where she was like, "I could've just gone for it .. Now you're probably thinking that it's just kissing but, she said the reason why it probably hasn't happened is that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, which I agree with and the fact that I always chicken out/say no jokingly, even though I'm dying for it(wanted this since year 7, promise I'm not desperate lol). But another reason is that for some reason i'm nervous/scared to do it. Like we've known each other since year 7, and we're now 20, and i feel like because its been sooo long, due to us being in relationships with other/not seeing each other for a while, it has to be good. I haven't had a proper experience of kissing/being with a girl, but she has been with girls her whole life so, I feel like there's a lot to live up to... I know I'm being stupid but any advice on how to not overthink this whole thing / how to approach this would be great...
Instead of telling her to stop doing the hing with her lip, why not just kiss her when she does it? There's no other way around it really. Your friendship is already changed because of the sexual vibe so no harm can come of it tbh.
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