Basically I've gone a bit wild this year at uni on the man-front. I've always had a high sex drive but recently it's just gone really crazy. I've just got involved with a lovely guy who I get on really well with. The problem is he's quite religious and we'd both probably feel very guilty if we took it all the way (though we're not far off doing it already). It hasn't been long since I was seeing another guy basically just for sex though recently he's been a lot more friendly and affectionate than a normal sex buddy would be, and I do really like him. I'm scared that when I do see him again I'll be tempted to sleep with him yet again. I do like my new 'boyfriend' (it's not quite official yet) but not as much as I like the unpredictability of being single.
This is a ramble sorry, but I'm really confused! I don't want to hurt anyone but I want to have the best time I can as well...should I come clean with the guy I'm with to minimise the damage? He knows I've been with a few guys recently but I don't think he knows just how confused and easily tempted I am. Or shall I just try my best to go steady with him and see what happens? What would guys prefer? Thanks
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- Thread Starter
- 03-03-2008 17:06
- 03-03-2008 18:10
Guys would prefer that you don't start a relationship with them whilst considering having sex with other men. If you know that you will 'sleep around' whilst with him then don't start anything.
- 03-03-2008 18:16
Depends how you'll think he'll take it. If he really wants the whole relationship thing then perhaps you should come clean before you hurt him.
On the other hand he may be ok with a more open arrangement.
My flatmate is a bit of a born again Christian, he's still shagged a few girls though. I hear them because of the thin walls!
- 03-03-2008 18:17
you should tell this guy how you feel. dont mess him around and do what ever makes you happiest