Boring Sex

Hi, so my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now, and we used to be really "active" but as of lately, I feel like he's just shoving a drawer in and out lol. I don't feel the passion or anything and that's a big deal for me if I don't feel the feeling in it and I'm frankly getting bored, anything I can do about it?

Get kinky?

Honestly, maybe take a break more to a relationship than sex. Go and relight the fire that brought you both together in the first place.

Your heart may grow fonder for the lack of activity and the passion will grow.

If it doesn’t - you may have hit a rough patch or maybe one or both of you are realising things aren’t working out - that could be temporary though as in, other stuff is happening which makes having passionate sex not a priority at the moment.

You make a very good point! I think we do need to take a step back and evaluate our relationship. I've been thinking about doing that, the only thing holding me back is I'm afraid that if we take a break, we'll actually go our separate ways. Thank you for your response, I really appreciate it

Do you still find him sexually attractive?

Try toys, anal and whatever else takes your fancy.

Im a 20 yr old guy with no sexual history (sadly?) but even though im a virgin i think if you just try new things with him to spice it up that might help with your boredom.

Porn isnt the best example but you can try several kinky things like BDSM and Roleplay. Also do you foreplay alot or call each other names duing said activity? Find what turns him on and tease him with it during the day perhaps?