Well as you can read by the title I am a cis girl but I want to be a boy. I hate the gender roles and **** like that and I want to have a flat chest and wear masculine clothes and literally BE A MALE but I'm not transgender I don't have gender dysphoria and I don't think I want top surgery.Can I still look like a boy act like a boy and have male gender pronouns without being transgender? Or is that considered offensive to people who ARE transgender? Do I have to just suck it up and hope this kind of feeling just blows over?
Duuude i feel the same exact way! except that i kind of want top surgery so i don't have to bind all the time. and i don't really like my breasts anyways, they're pretty pointless to me.
wearing baggy clothes and disliking having breasts doesn't suddenly make you a male. I think you just mean you're a tomboy.
You can wear whatever you want and act however you want without labelling it. You can still be woman and act in a masculine way and wear masculine clothes. I think the popular label for that is non-gender conforming, but who cares what it's called. This taxonomy is pointless, you just be whoever you want to be and do the things you want to do. Lots of other people will tell you that your trans or a tomboy or a lesbian, but none of that matters. What matters is you doing what makes you happy and being true to yourself.
If you don't have dysphoria, you're not trans cause you need gender dysphoria to be transgender, and you shouldn't use male pronouns cause they're for men. From what you've said I'd say you're just a tomboy.