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I am a muslim girl and when I went to uni I literally went crazy and ending up sleeping with 2 or 3 men a night to compensate for the days I wasnt allowed to even speak to boys without getting slapped by my father or mother lol. I met these men either on my course, other courses and good old tinder. People in uni speak very badly of me and some of the people on my course are calling me foul names. The thing is this is all I have in my life (sex) which makes me happy, I am not rich or have anything in particular going for me. What do you think? I always use protection every single time.
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Is it actually a 1000 men or is that an exaggeration? I can’t believe this is a real number. 40 men maybe I would believe it but not 1000 that seems physically impossible. Anyway, with regards to them name calling, that’s not nice and women are allowed to enjoy sex just as much as men so don’t feel ashamed. If sex makes you happy then so be it but I would also advice finding another hobby which makes you happy. Always use protection 
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I normally try and keep and open mind when it comes to sex and relationships but girl you gone done it.
I don't know why you chose to sleep with so many people. Sex should never be 'compensating' for something else.
The reason why everyone calls you names is because people talk. You've slept with a person from your course, that person tells a friend, that friend tries to get with you, succeeds, he tells a friend and it repeats itself. When I first got into university I had 2 principles when it comes to sex - dont sleep with classmates and flatmates. Things get awkward and people start judging you.
Sleeping with people from Tinder or people your friends' don know is fine (if u must have sex with someone) due to the fact that a reputation will not get traced to you.)
Anyway, I dont understand why you didnt get a boyfriend to sleep with if you like sex so much. Its sex+ emotional support = win win.
Chances are that your reputation will stick with you in university and whatever you do people will very hardly change their opinion for you. Even if you try and befriend them. Ontop of that Muslims are generally perceived to be more religious so you are probably like an alien to them.
Try and distance yourself from your coursemates and attend classes only when necessary. If you have a friend group stick with them. It will be hard becuase people will look at you as if ure a witch for X amount of years (Until u finish uni)... I recommend you get a boyfriend (even if you dont tell your parents) and have sex with him. Be aware that people might tell him stories about you so be truthful with him from the beginning. Tell him about your past and if he doesnt like you after that then that is his problem.
I don't know why you chose to sleep with so many people. Sex should never be 'compensating' for something else.
The reason why everyone calls you names is because people talk. You've slept with a person from your course, that person tells a friend, that friend tries to get with you, succeeds, he tells a friend and it repeats itself. When I first got into university I had 2 principles when it comes to sex - dont sleep with classmates and flatmates. Things get awkward and people start judging you.
Sleeping with people from Tinder or people your friends' don know is fine (if u must have sex with someone) due to the fact that a reputation will not get traced to you.)
Anyway, I dont understand why you didnt get a boyfriend to sleep with if you like sex so much. Its sex+ emotional support = win win.
Chances are that your reputation will stick with you in university and whatever you do people will very hardly change their opinion for you. Even if you try and befriend them. Ontop of that Muslims are generally perceived to be more religious so you are probably like an alien to them.
Try and distance yourself from your coursemates and attend classes only when necessary. If you have a friend group stick with them. It will be hard becuase people will look at you as if ure a witch for X amount of years (Until u finish uni)... I recommend you get a boyfriend (even if you dont tell your parents) and have sex with him. Be aware that people might tell him stories about you so be truthful with him from the beginning. Tell him about your past and if he doesnt like you after that then that is his problem.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I am a muslim girl and when I went to uni I literally went crazy and ending up sleeping with 2 or 3 men a night to compensate for the days I wasnt allowed to even speak to boys without getting slapped by my father or mother lol. I met these men either on my course, other courses and good old tinder. People in uni speak very badly of me and some of the people on my course are calling me foul names. The thing is this is all I have in my life (sex) which makes me happy, I am not rich or have anything in particular going for me. What do you think? I always use protection every single time.
I am a muslim girl and when I went to uni I literally went crazy and ending up sleeping with 2 or 3 men a night to compensate for the days I wasnt allowed to even speak to boys without getting slapped by my father or mother lol. I met these men either on my course, other courses and good old tinder. People in uni speak very badly of me and some of the people on my course are calling me foul names. The thing is this is all I have in my life (sex) which makes me happy, I am not rich or have anything in particular going for me. What do you think? I always use protection every single time.
I think a lot of guys care and a lot of guys don't. So I wouldn't worry about it too much
Are you addicted or do you enjoy it? Addicted means you can't even if you want to
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honestly I don't like to judge, but do you think that's right to do so? Try start a new hobby or something, there's bound to be something that you'll enjoy. Name calling etc. is not good, but it's hard to avoid it if you have that sort of a reputation.
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#9
What is the point of this post exactly? Validation or sympathy? Oh, it's probably fake anyway.
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I get the feeling that the OP was not written by a Muslim girl with 1000 notches on her bedpost, but by a 25 year old guy who has never slept with anyone and probably never will.
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For anyone saying it’s not true. Remember Wilt The Stilt had over 20’000 bangs and there’s thousands of virgins in uni, she’d literally have to say nothing to get it
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I am a muslim girl and when I went to uni I literally went crazy and ending up sleeping with 2 or 3 men a night to compensate for the days I wasnt allowed to even speak to boys without getting slapped by my father or mother lol. I met these men either on my course, other courses and good old tinder. People in uni speak very badly of me and some of the people on my course are calling me foul names. The thing is this is all I have in my life (sex) which makes me happy, I am not rich or have anything in particular going for me. What do you think? I always use protection every single time.
I am a muslim girl and when I went to uni I literally went crazy and ending up sleeping with 2 or 3 men a night to compensate for the days I wasnt allowed to even speak to boys without getting slapped by my father or mother lol. I met these men either on my course, other courses and good old tinder. People in uni speak very badly of me and some of the people on my course are calling me foul names. The thing is this is all I have in my life (sex) which makes me happy, I am not rich or have anything in particular going for me. What do you think? I always use protection every single time.
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Y'all just hating because OP is a girl. LOL it's uni have fun, just stay protected and dont let sex take over your life. Ignore the virgin haters :
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Is it actually a 1000 men or is that an exaggeration? I can’t believe this is a real number. 40 men maybe I would believe it but not 1000 that seems physically impossible. Anyway, with regards to them name calling, that’s not nice and women are allowed to enjoy sex just as much as men so don’t feel ashamed. If sex makes you happy then so be it but I would also advice finding another hobby which makes you happy. Always use protection
Is it actually a 1000 men or is that an exaggeration? I can’t believe this is a real number. 40 men maybe I would believe it but not 1000 that seems physically impossible. Anyway, with regards to them name calling, that’s not nice and women are allowed to enjoy sex just as much as men so don’t feel ashamed. If sex makes you happy then so be it but I would also advice finding another hobby which makes you happy. Always use protection
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(Original post by Kaffee_1998)
I seriously doubt that you’ve slept with that many men. I call bullsh*t
I seriously doubt that you’ve slept with that many men. I call bullsh*t
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Over a period of 3 years I have slept with that many men not in 1 month lol believe me its possible
Over a period of 3 years I have slept with that many men not in 1 month lol believe me its possible
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