Just had a row with gf

Just had a really big row with my girlfriend, and left it on really bad terms. She had to be somewhere else and I just walked out from her's with a 'see you later'.

She was really upset - not going to go into what it was about.

Basically- should I text her something? What do women want to hear after a row, apart from 'I'm sorry, you were right' - because I think we are equally in the wrong here....

Sorry for be so vague - help appreciated

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Reply 1

ghostories

Funnily enough I had an argument with my boyfriend that ended the exact same way. I wanted him to text/ring me and ask if we could meet up and talk about it later maybe. But he didn't so I texted him. End it with an "i love you" to show the meeting won't be hostile!

Reply 2

TOD100

lol i don't think i'm ready for the 'L' word :s-smilie:

Reply 3

ghostories

Oops! Haha, thats just what i'd do in my situation! In that case just end with a few kisses? Just something to show you still care!

Reply 4

Wangers

Leave her til tomorrow morning to cool off - let her bitch to the gfs tonight and you can take her out for a meal tomorrow and make amends.

Reply 5

EarlHickey

Wangers

Leave her til tomorrow morning to cool off - let her bitch to the gfs tonight and you can take her out for a meal tomorrow and make amends.

So the argument was equally their fault and he has to treat her to a meal to say sorry lol

21st Century an all

Reply 6

TOD100

lol i'm stubborn and won't make ammends for something that I believe to be reasonable! we were supposed to be doign something later tonight - should i just wait to hear from her?

And what do I put BEFORE the kisses lol ?

Reply 7

The Lyceum

Set fire to her house. Then save her! she'll be so grateful!

Reply 8

Wangers

EarlHickey

So the argument was equally their fault and he has to treat her to a meal to say sorry lol

21st Century an all

Isn't it just.

On the other hand, she can pay on the next date and make up sex is awesome.

Reply 9

Wangers

The Lyceum

Set fire to her house. Then save her! she'll be so grateful!

This (though old) did make me laugh. :smile:

I take it you liked the poem 'Itaca' on the other thread?

Reply 10

The Lyceum

Wangers

This (though old) did make me laugh. :smile:

I take it you liked the poem 'Itaca' on the other thread?

I walked around my house, naked and oiled at 4am chanting sections of it, yes. :smile:

Seriously though, I loved it.

Reply 11

bethabetta

If you say sorry, it doesn't mean she can't say sorry later as well - it's more like a "I'm sorry we had an argument" than a "I'm sorry, I'm in the wrong". Works perfectly. :smile:

So you could say something along the lines of 'sorry' - question about about when you're meeting up - and then the kisses.

Reply 12

campbell87

get in touch with her and apologise. If I fall out with my boyfriend I do wait for him to get in touch, the longer it takes the more I fret etc.

Reply 13

stevo23e

wow,seems like everyones had the same friday night, i had an arguement that i cant remember with the girl i fancy last night,after txting her drunk at 2am to apologise im wondering how long i should leave it till i txt again,dont you just love saturday morning dillemas

Reply 14

miki_da_magpie

Appologise, even if its for the horrible weather. As you put in ur post, women want to hear they are right after an argument (most do, and most of the time they are, but thats beside the point). Let her cool off a bit and then take her somewhere where neither of you can walk out on the other.

Reply 15

Somewhat Damaged

I had an arguement last night too!

I'd just want to hear from you, saying "sorry for storming out earlier, can we talk about it? xxx"

kinda thing.
then you can TALK about it. (no shouting :p:

) and work things out.

Reply 16

stibbit

personally i wouldnt text her apologising, because its like you dont have the time for a propper conversation. ring her, or go round to see her.

Reply 17

Pheonixx

ring rather than txt
just saying hi, her hearing your voice will ease lots of tension, and ask to pop round, try start a fresh
i had many arguments with my (now) ex, and the above does seem now to be the best way forward

Reply 18

bodybuilder22

Wow that's really strange because I just had a really big row with my girlfriend, and left it on really bad terms. She had to be somewhere else and I just walked out from her's with a 'see you later'.

She was really upset - not going to go into what it was about.

Basically- should I text her something? What do women want to hear after a row, apart from 'I'm sorry, you were right' - because I think we are equally in the wrong here....

Reply 19

randdom

I think that your best bet is to give her a call and say it was a silly fight and can you move past it. That you didn't mean to upset her and you just want to move past it. Calling is probably better than texting as it is more personal :smile: