Non-religious ceremony. I'll wear ivory (not white, I'll just look washed out). I don't mind what my boyfriend wears (we are planning to get married at some point but nothing's official yet). He usually has good taste though so I would be happy to trust him on that one.
Don't really care how I get there - my parents have nice cars anyway so they'd do
I'm also honestly not that bothered about having a hen night - I NEVER enjoyed the single life and so I don't see the point in lamenting its passing.
I'd like a really simple violin solo coming in, something joyful like an excerpt from Bach's Partita in E. Don't really want swelling orchestral stuff - as my boyfriend says, we're not extras in a Disney movie
ABSOLUTELY NO bridesmaids - they really are completely pointless. I don't see the point in shelling out £100 for a dress so they can stand around and do nothing. Sadly, my mum will probably make me have my sister as a bridesmaid
We get on really well and all but I just don't see the point. I wouldn't even want a train on my dress so she wouldn't even have anything to carry for me!
Close friends and family only. I can't anticipate us having more than 50 guests and even that seems slightly on the large side to me.
After that, hopefully just a small meal somewhere (though not in a restaurant, you can do that any time). Ideally it would be nice to have the ceremony in a hotel somewhere and then eat there. And then bog off on a nice spa hotel honeymoon in Italy with all the money I've saved from the wedding