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    How attractive do you think you are?
    && why
    Attractiveness taking into account personality, looks, humour, sexiness, fashion sense, social cohesion...etc.
    &&& How attractive would you say the person above you is?

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    Don't you think the answer's always gonna be really subjective? People always find different things particularly attractive or unattractive... I guess I'm just stating the obvious as always.

    From personal experience some girls have found me really attractive, and I'm sure others have found me repulsive I'm not bad looking, pretty well-built, confident, talkative, polite, popular in my circles, I like to think I'm funny

    BUT

    below average height, a bit over-obsessed with sport, some girls like skinnier guys, some girls like long hair and stubble which I tend to avoid, and I've gained a reputation for being a bit of a squeaky clean do-gooder (which some people don't like)

    It all balances out so I'm wavering around average, although I think more people would say I'm attractive than unattractive.

    OP you seem pretty physically attractive to me, although I can't really see your eyes. The fact that you would bring up this topic means you have a vague interest in how people perceive themselves, which I like Thumbs up

    Edit: Oh and you have nice hair too
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    (Original post by gee_shakedown)
    How attractive do you think you are?
    && why
    Attractiveness taking into account personality, looks, humour, sexiness, fashion sense, social cohesion...etc.
    &&& How attractive would you say the person above you is?

    :love:
    ur fit xxx
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    (Original post by alexmunich0n)
    ur fit xxx
    Lmao this post looks familiar!

    http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=536986
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    Your both attractive and I'm bi I hope i've scared you both now.
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    (Original post by talktofrank)
    The fact that you would bring up this topic means you have a vague interest in how people perceive themselves, which I like Thumbs up
    Call me a cynic (ive been on here far too long ) but when most people say something like oh 'And how attractive do you think the person above you is' it usually means they just want people to rate them. Even if it is cleverly disguised as a genuine topic of discussion. (Btw, not accusing you of that atall OP, just making that point as ive seen it many times before and not everyone is genuine they just want to be told they are hot)

    Although in relation to the topic, I dont think im physically attractive, but I like my personality, so that kind of balances out how I feel about myself. I like my sense of humor too, although my dress sense isnt fantastic. Im alright when im dressing up, and I have loads of nice clothes, but I just cant be bothered to make an effort most of the time, so more often than not im just in jeans and a hoody, and probably look like a right tramp :p:
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    haha :P
    Not at all
    Keep the love rolling in
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    (Original post by louisedotcom)
    Call me a cynic (ive been on here far too long ) but when most people say something like oh 'And how attractive do you think the person above you is' it usually means they just want people to rate them. Even if it is cleverly disguised as a genuine topic of discussion. (Btw, not accusing you of that atall OP, just making that point)
    I was thinking of a way to phrase that other than saying 'Not another check-out-how-hot-I-am thread'. Even if it wasn't your initial intention OP, it will eventually descend into that.
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    (Original post by louisedotcom)
    Call me a cynic (ive been on here far too long ) but when most people say something like oh 'And how attractive do you think the person above you is' it usually means they just want people to rate them. Even if it is cleverly disguised as a genuine topic of discussion. (Btw, not accusing you of that atall OP, just making that point)

    Although in relation to the topic, I dont think im physically attractive, but I like my personality, so that kind of balances out how I feel about myself. I like my sense of humor too, although my dress sense isnt fantastic. Im alright when im dressing up, and I have loads of nice clothes, but I just cant be bothered to make an effort most of the time, so more often than not im just in jeans and a hoody, and probably look like a right tramp :p:
    Hehe yes but it's the "what do you think of yourself" that's interesting. Also it opens up debate, rather than people just plainly commenting on one person's attractiveness.

    And judging by your facebook tag thingy, you ARE physically attractive. Definitely. Call me a cynic, but aren't you just fishing for compliments? Sorry I just couldn't resist. Ignore that bit.
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    Ahh most likely.
    I just want to find out how people percieve themselves and why.
    & how other people percieve them, if it's just by looks or other factors.
    I'm not looking to be rated, nothing annoys me more than overtly good looking people fishing for compliments on how hot they are.
    && a chance to meet some new people
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    Yeha, but everyone opinion of attractiveness differs doesn't it. Like, does social cohesion make you attractive? So, I get on really great with almost every person I meet, I get invited to lots of parties and I never get into a point in a conversation when I run out of things to say. Does that make me attractive? :rolleyes:

    And my fashion sense is poop. So I get a 0 for that one.
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    Attractiveness is completely subjective. I used to be convinced that my perception of others was the monopoly on attractiveness but I've come to learn that whilst there is a general structure of attractiveness much of it is anyones game really. Without sounding too cliche or cheesy for me in a girl I like good looks (in a conventional sense) and just a nice person, without sounding like a chauvinist my gf is perfect for me in that shes got opinions and is able to hold a conversation but is for the most part agreeable and refrains from being all in your face opinionated, which I find such a turn off.
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    (Original post by sugarlumps.)
    Yeha, but everyone opinion of attractiveness differs doesn't it. Like, does social cohesion make you attractive? So, I get on really great with almost every person I meet, I get invited to lots of parties and I never get into a point in a conversation when I run out of things to say. Does that make me attractive? :rolleyes:

    And my fashion sense is poop. So I get a 0 for that one.
    Cambridgeoffermakesyouattractive saywhat?
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    That's what I made the thread about
    I want to see if that's the sort of thing people find attractive
    I'm immensely shy and introverted, and people find that extremely unattractive, so I don't have many friends.
    I do think that being able to be so effortlessly social is attractive.
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    (Original post by talktofrank)
    Cambridgeoffermakesyouattractive saywhat?
    Hah, I wish.
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    I actually think shyness (not such much introvertedness) is one of the biggest things that would attract me to a girl, it endears me, theres more to life than socialising.
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    (Original post by talktofrank)
    Cambridgeoffermakesyouattractive saywhat?
    well, intelligence is attractive
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    I love hate how everyone on TSR is so damn attractive. It simply highlights my own inadequacy.
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    People often say I'm attractive looks wise
    But because I'm so shy and lacking in any form of confidence I never manage to get anywhere
    *sigh*
    online geekdom rules.
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    (Original post by gee_shakedown)
    People often say I'm attractive looks wise
    But because I'm so shy and lacking in any form of confidence I never manage to get anywhere
    *sigh*
    online geekdom rules.
    yes you are :top:
 
 
 
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