Need some advice..bf troubles Watch
Well, he moved away 4 months ago.. about 100 miles away cos his parents were moving, i knew it was going to happen at some point so i was ready for it.. he's been working up there he gets longgg shifts, up to late in the night.. i can understand hes stressed out and wants time to himself, but he cant find time to text me or even give me an email telling me how he is, because hes too tired. that worries me because if i dont hear from him i feel as if we're drifting apart and im not in the picture anymore ive been going out with him for 3 years and i really dont want to break up but when i try to talk to him he says im selfish only thinking about myself, not considering that hes working all day.. what do i do ???? xxxxx
Luckily he can use msn at work so its not such a problem, but at first it is a real shock and it is difficult to adjust.
Eventually you'll get used to him working, and he'll get used to it and hopefully he'll get more energy back =]
long distance relationships do sometimes make you feel like you're not in the picture anymore, but you'll find things go back to normal as soon as you see him again =]
Anyways ive emailed him saying that we should talk when hes off work after hes slept and gamed and ill probs not even get a response today cos hes working at 4 and hes sleepin now from his long shift last night.. its always me that feels like this i hate it ! cant concentrate on my school work or anything, dont feel like revising anymore xx
he will go on the pc for like an hour to game then sleep.. oh he used 2 be addicted to WoW ! but when he realised how sad it was getting he stopped, he still games on other games, not as much as he used to on WoW, that was just plain ridiculous, it would take up 70% of his day, gaming on WoW im glad he's stopped.. x
This says it all to me. From what I've read of your posts, he apparently doesn't have the time to text/email/call you or whatever, and yet he has the time to play on computer games? I don't think he's got his priorities right, and much as I'm sure he doesn't want to hear it, you need to talk to him about it. Talking is the only real way to sort these things.