Yeah I guess so, I realised where I went wrong... I would text daily and even triple text if he would not reply and get annoyed.
He is a decent friend, he did not get angry but if i do something irrational he gets annoyed and stops talking which had made me cry before.
That what I am working on rn not to care if someone ignores, not to contact the person more than they contact me , even better not to contact them first or make plans first and to take my time in replying to messages.
I know what to do just find it hard to control myself from messaging.