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    I need advice. Basically over the last like 8 years or something iv found porn on the computer and like hidden pages that have been printed off. A couple of weeks ago i came in at lunch to see my dad sitting at the computer with his trousers open. I was actually disgusted. All of this can only be my dad, cos hes the only one in the house. Its made our relationship really rocky cos i cant bear to speak to him. I just think hes a creep.
    Am i over reacting? I was gonna tell my mum but i really dont know how she would take it.What do uz think?
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    Wow, he looks at porn. Get over it.

    How is he a creep? loads of guys look at porn, you don't accuse any guy reading The Sun to be a pervert do you?

    I know that sounds harsh, but over-reacting a bit yeah.
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    you are over reacting. hes not doing anything wrong
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    i know but when its your dad?
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    sounds like a hero
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    I need advice. Basically over the last like 8 years or something iv found porn on the computer and like hidden pages that have been printed off. A couple of weeks ago i came in at lunch to see my dad sitting at the computer with his trousers open. I was actually disgusted. All of this can only be my dad, cos hes the only one in the house. Its made our relationship really rocky cos i cant bear to speak to him. I just think hes a creep.
    Am i over reacting? I was gonna tell my mum but i really dont know how she would take it.What do uz think?
    Totally. It's not a big deal at all, don't let this ruin your relationship.
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    I don't know what gender you are, OP, but lots of guys look at porn. It's unfair for you to condemn your dad for it.
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    im a girl lol
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    my dad looks at porn. he's a bloke. he's divorced. he has to get his kicks somewhere.
    so what? its not like he does it when i'm around.
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    He's a bloke. Most blokes look at porn.

    What happened is to be kept quiet. - Really want to raise tensions between him and your mum. You didn't exactly catch him in bed with another woman.
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    Yeah don't worry about it. It's very awkward at first but just give it a few days and you'll be de-awkwardified.
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    although it is normal for guys to do that, when he's your father he should have the dignity to ensure you don't walk in on him and are thus mentally scarred forevermore.

    that was well harsh, but it doesn't make him a creep, it just makes him insensitive
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Please keep anon or delete.

    I need advice. Basically over the last like 8 years or something iv found porn on the computer and like hidden pages that have been printed off. A couple of weeks ago i came in at lunch to see my dad sitting at the computer with his trousers open. I was actually disgusted. All of this can only be my dad, cos hes the only one in the house. Its made our relationship really rocky cos i cant bear to speak to him. I just think hes a creep.
    Am i over reacting? I was gonna tell my mum but i really dont know how she would take it.What do uz think?

    Yeh, your really over reacting, its normal.
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    OMG!! He must be like, a perv!

    Get over yourself, I expect your mum knows he looks at porn, most men do!

    I know my bf does for one, but I also don't mind, it's not like he goes out and shags other girls. I sit and watch porn with my bf sometimes even, sometimes even look at it on my own.

    Don't be so ridiculous over this, it's not worth ruining your relationship with your father over.
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    He's your dad, but he's a MAN! Men do these things, does not mean they love their partners any less. It's a tension release for some. Think nothing of it. Read womens magazines, they'll explain that's it's no big deal too.

    As long he's not having an affair!
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    my dad looks at porn. he's a bloke. he's divorced. he has to get his kicks somewhere.
    so what? its not like he does it when i'm around.
    yeah but how would you feel if you found it, or walked in on him? plus he and my mum are still married.
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    He's a human being, and a male one at that!

    A LOT of people watch porn its not unusual though I understand that realising your dad also watches it isnt a nice thing to think about. Don't let something like this affect your relationship with him

    I am guessing you're female? Porn's honestly fine even I watch it
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    delete the porn off the pc that would be quite funny and may make him stop. Oh and i do you may be overeacting slightly...
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    Wow, your Dad is human.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i know but when its your dad?
    What if its your classmates? the guy from your local shop? the butcher? the baker? the candle stick maker?
 
 
 
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