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blondevalkyrie
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I agree with MSB, most men do look at porn and I know it may seem horrible that he looks at it, because obviously he's your dad and you might think its also disrespecting your mum- but I think your just going to have to turn a blind eye and forget about it. Its not worth getting upset or angry over.
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Am i over reacting? I was gonna tell my mum but i really dont know how she would take it.What do uz think?
Yes you are very much over reacting, your mother will probably know anyway.
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yeah but how would you feel if you found it, or walked in on him? plus he and my mum are still married.
Well yeah obviously I would rather not find it/walk in on him but whats done is done. You can't begrudge him for doing something he and millions of other people around the world find completely normal.

I dont think the fact that your parents are still married is that important... I have a boyfriend and I still watch it. And you dont know what your parents' sex life is life, maybe he's not getting enough. At least you didnt walk in on him having an affair. You probably dont like to think of your parents in that way but its something you should be aware of.
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maybe write him an email or something asking him to be discreet about it for the sake of your relationship.
you are over reacting, because it's a normal thing. but you're right. when it's your parents it's weird. like when you hear them have sex.
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I don't think i could ever leave porn alone for good. No matter how much sex i get.
Leave him alone, he's allowed to have some release!

At least he's not cheating. Give the guy a break.
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yeah but how would you feel if you found it, or walked in on him? plus he and my mum are still married.
i have found his porn. it was a bit weird to stumble across it but its not affected our relationship in the slightest. i think you're blowing it out of proportion. looking at porn is jus sumthin guys do. the fact that your parents are still married is irrelevant cos porn has no reflection on reality- its pure fantasy/escapism.
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i know but when its your dad?
try to accept this. he'll also have to accept your sexual life (whenever it starts/has started) and that won't be easy for him as well

and remeber that in some way you exist thanks to his sexual life
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I know it's very awkward to think about, but he is just like every other man out there... and yes, they are sexual beings - even dads! Don't let it get in the way of your relationship; it's like you having sex... I doubt most fathers would want to have that image in their heads! With time, the unusual nature of it will pass.
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Install child protection on you're computer
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Well he is only human, but try and give him some sort of hint that he should damn well do a better job of hiding it.
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It's entirely normal.
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(Original post by death.drop)
like when you hear them have sex.
That happened to me when I was about 12 - I thought I'd be left emotionally scarred, but I got over it with time...
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I've removed posts that were discussing randomly_girlish's suggestion to go the police, as he's clearly a troll. No one else has done wrong.

anyway, back on topic.
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wow id be disgusted whats he doing is illegal. have a word with him and tell him too stop other youll go to the police.
I can't work out whether this is a mick take or serious... but LOL!

This is the reason I love TSR!
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  1. Yes it's a bit creepy because it's your father. But unless it's illegal porn i.e Children or Animals. Don't worry too much
  2. As much as you complain to him that you find it disturbing, he'll probably still do it.
  3. Ask him to be more discreet and keep it private from you - how would he feel if you flaunted your sexuality in front of him?


Men are men. But you only get one father unfortunately.
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Don't stress over it. It's perfectly normal to watch porn. It might seem disgusting because it's your dad, in that parents having sex is disgusting kinda way I suppose but I wouldn't let it affect your opinion of him. Just because your parents are still married doesn't mean your dad isn't allowed to look at porn. Your mum might even know about it and think it is fine. I wouldn't get involved. Just forget it.
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(Original post by Meep!)
I can't work out whether this is a mick take or serious... but LOL!

This is the reason I love TSR!
Her GCSE and A Level grades don't seem to correlate with the stupid comments she makes :rofl:
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Am I the only one here that agrees with the OP? Just because something's a common practice, doesn't mean it's acceptable. It seems that anyone that looks at the stuff, on their own, while in a relationship is, to a certain extent, degrading that relationship.

Everyone is agreed that it is wrong to sleep with someone, whilst in a relationship with someone else. How different is fantasising about sleeping with someone, whilst in a relationship with someone else?
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Haha my mate shares porn with his dad, actually, ive got a nice story to tell...

When me and two others last went to amsterdam, we bought my mate a porn dvd which involved pooing on each other, eating it etc, being sick and eating it - was horrible stuff lol.

Anyway, we gave it to him, he watched it, and then showed it to his dad! Now, his dad keeps it :P


edit: To the OP - at least you know what to get your dad for christmas!
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yeah but how would you feel if you found it, or walked in on him? plus he and my mum are still married.
Many, indeed I'm sure the majority of happily marries men still look at porn, it's not exaclty cheating. Your mum may even know.

I wouldn't care if I found out my dad looked at porn, tbh I don;t see how your Dad masturbating would be much different from your parents having sex. Your Mum mihgt even look at porn!

Basically, you're over reacting and need to, in the nicest way, grow up about this.
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