I have more body hair than most guys, and I'm a woman! However, I do keep it shortly trimmed in most areas, particularly my underpits and legs, especially if I'm going swimming. I also keep my facial peach fuss shaved using an electric razor. I don't find myself looking any less feminine or any more masculine because of this. I also have a few male friends who often shave their body's completely, and they don't look any less masculine. I believe its more of a personal choice and if you don't like someone with/without hair, then deal with it or don't look at them. It is never a good idea to tell someone though in most cases since you'll only make them self-conscious and probably hate you. If you're looking for a friend, hair shouldn't bother you since your not going to marry them or anything. Focus on their attitude and other aspects of the person instead. If you are looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend, go fishing until you find someone that meets your expectations (if you find them!)