Hot and cold- argh Watch
So I thought he was avoiding me but he saw me at the train station last Monday. I was in my own world with music in so he waved right under my face and stopped me to ask how I was doing. He was very smiley and he was looking me in the eye as opposed to the last time I saw him.
I gave him an Easter card today but he wasn't too chatty and seemed a bit distant, though he said he wasn't okay at the time. He can get quite distant though sometimes, and often acts like he hasn't seen me when other people are around.
I just don't get it- what the hell does this mean?! I was on the phone to my mum a while ago and she said he could just be being polite but is still feeling uncomfortable, but then why did he stop me at the train station when I couldn't even see him? He could've walked away.
I always pick the confusing moody men!!!
I'm thinking about sending him an email to ask if he feels awkward about our relationship.
I don't think its necessary to email him, just see what happens and if things progress.
The e-mail may be a bit like you are bothering him, not in a mean way but you have sent two cards now and an e-mail. If he is shy it may seem like a lot of attention to him perhaps?
I'd just like to know if he is offended I guess. Sometimes it seems like he's not into me and that I've weirded him out, and other times he's friendly.
A few end of term drinks or coffee or a meal etc may go down well.
I hope so. I love the subjects he specialises in and I'd love to have a long chat about it even if it didn't result in anything else. (Although that would be nice.)