(Original post by Anonymous)
Hello, bear with me as this could take a while!
ok, I had been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year and a half, and all was going well. However, she has always had trust issues, especially with me and other girls, and accused me of going out and doing stuff with other girls every time i was out with my mates, which wan't true (er...except for once when we had been going out for two weeks and i pulled a girl in a club)
She has also been working a lot recently, and we hadn't seen as much of each other as we used to do, and when we did, she would complain of being tired, so we didn't go out together...basically, things weren't quite the same as they used to be. Add to that the fact she was very snappy and used to frequently tell me to **** off at the littlest of things; even her parents couldn't believe how she spoke to me, given that I always treated her nicely.
Putting all this together, we decided to go on a break for a week; not contact each other, no phone, no facebook etc. It went well enough, but deep down I didn't think she was happy with me...
So here's the complicated bit. On Saturday night, I met a girl and we got on really well, talked for ages and we ended up kissing and swapping numbers, which I know I shouldn't have done. then when I saw my girlfriend on Sunday, she looked through my phone when I fell asleep and saw the message this girl sent me and completely lost her temper. Eventually it died dowwn and we spoke like adults. We decided to break up, which I was upset about obviously, but I thought it was for the best in the long run, especially if we stay friends, as she still means the world to me.
Trouble is though, me and this other girl have been texting, and are likely to go out on a date pretty soon, and the question is, would I be right to go, especially as we met when me and my girlfriend were still together? Should I forget the fact I like this girl and ignore her because it's so soon since the break up? Also, if my ex found out, it would really upset her I'm sure, and I don't want to do that....
As you can see it's a bit complicated, and if you are still reading this you deserve a medal!
So any advice would be very much appreciated