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    Im in high school and theres boys around me that call me fat and ugly, which really lowers my self esteem, especially since im trying to lose weight/belly fat.
    it started since i dumped my boyfriend for multiple reasons
    i dont feel comfortable anywhere at school without some boys either calling me fat or sexualising me because i have thick thighs.
    what do i do?
    i dont want to tell any adult bc my year group is the type to call you a snake or beg.
    please help ;/

    Listen I know it's hard to feel isolated and unimportant with all that's going on and that is alot to deal with. I want to say that I am honestly proud of you for taking steps to deal with your weight if it is for your own satisfaction. Love yourself even though it's hard to , because you are the only person who you can truly trust and rely on. Please try to fight through this and remember that it won't go on forever, one day you'll be screaming from the roof of your mansion "LOOK AT ME NOW ******** ". bUT for now work hard in school, you can't let this bul**** affect your future. YOu simple can't. Become more confident in your own skin and people will back off trust me, act like the world is your stage and do your own thing. It's easier said than done but it's not imposssible, and all it take is a different approach to a situation. Hold your head up high, enjoy your own company and be there for yourself and yourself only. The changes won't be instant, but with patience, hope and some good confidence you'll get through it. I promise. DM me if you need to and tell me how it goes.
    Good luck.
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