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    i got into an argument with my boyfriend and I called him an alcoholic, this really upset him. Calling me fat and ugly. Asking his mates who was better looking me or his ex (they said his ex). He even said I'm lose (he is the only man I've slept with). Really embarrassing stuff why would he do that? Everyone was laughing at me I feel disgusting.
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    Such disgusting behaviour. Dump him ASAP
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i got into an argument with my boyfriend and I called him an alcoholic, this really upset him. Calling me fat and ugly. Asking his mates who was better looking me or his ex (they said his ex). He even said I'm lose (he is the only man I've slept with). Really embarrassing stuff why would he do that? Everyone was laughing at me I feel disgusting.
    Sounds a toxic relationship think you should end it
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    Sounds like a horrible guy.
    Bit immature what you both were doing.
    How long have you been together? Does he normally care for you, is this the first time he's been like this?
    What was the arguement over-was it that bad that you guys felt the need to insult one another?
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    It was a lover's tiff. Apart from this incident how have things been between you and him?
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    He sounds insecure
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    You both acted pretty immature. Either sit down and talk to him about it like adults and if you dont get along then there really is not much point of a relationship. Prolly better to talk to him about it directly than asking the student room
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    Calling him an alcoholic to begin with isn't cool however, I understand that it was proberly said in the heat of the moment. Even though you called him an alcoholic it doesn't give him the right to say all that about you. Especially getting his friends involved in an argument between you and him. If you're boyfriend is like this on a regular basis I would say dump his ass! I also believe that he may have been offended and embarrassed since you said that in front of his friends which could be the reason why he attacked you with those words to gain control of the situation and look and feel like the big man in the relationship to his friends. Again this does not excuse his actions and if this is the case then he is being really childish and pathetic. I hope you are alright and that you two have sorted things out.
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    You insulted him so he fired back. You aren't the innocent one.
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    You’re both in the wrong.
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    (Original post by TheAlchemistress)
    You’re both in the wrong.
    His mates saying his ex was better looking as well lol, what a bunch of d***s... Just the whole bunch of them - OP, her bf and his mates - sound like a bunch of idiots tbh.
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    His mates saying his ex was better looking as well lol, what a bunch of d***s... Just the whole bunch of them - OP, her bf and his mates - sound like a bunch of idiots tbh.
    😂 I have to agree with you. His friends are also crap heads saying that, I would have most probably smacked them.
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    ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTABLE!!!
    i think
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    Dump him, you were wrong to call him an alcoholic and he was wrong to call you fat and ugly but it stopped being even when he dragged his friends into it. def doesnt sound like a relationship worth continuing.
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    Dump him you deserve better
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    get rid off him
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i got into an argument with my boyfriend and I called him an alcoholic, this really upset him. Calling me fat and ugly. Asking his mates who was better looking me or his ex (they said his ex). He even said I'm lose (he is the only man I've slept with). Really embarrassing stuff why would he do that? Everyone was laughing at me I feel disgusting.
    He is a **** you need to get rid of...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i got into an argument with my boyfriend and I called him an alcoholic, this really upset him. Calling me fat and ugly. Asking his mates who was better looking me or his ex (they said his ex). He even said I'm lose (he is the only man I've slept with). Really embarrassing stuff why would he do that? Everyone was laughing at me I feel disgusting.
    Classic Example of a Girl instigating and a Boy Biting back, with the Girl unable to take the bite back. You are weak if you get hurt by such meaningless opinions- God help the next BF you get...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i got into an argument with my boyfriend and I called him an alcoholic, this really upset him. Calling me fat and ugly. Asking his mates who was better looking me or his ex (they said his ex). He even said I'm lose (he is the only man I've slept with). Really embarrassing stuff why would he do that? Everyone was laughing at me I feel disgusting.
    Honey, drop that piece of trash. I get that couples fight but bringing his friends into it is just wrong and disgusting. If he were a decent person, he wouldve talked to u abt it, if he was hurt or offended by what u said he shouldve told u, not gone to his friends and started to insult u. Any person who does that is not worth it. My advice, dump him, it may feel terrible at first but ull realize that u just dropped dead weight and there are plenty of other guys out there who will treat u well and give u the respect u deserve and not talk **** abt u.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Honey, drop that piece of trash. I get that couples fight but bringing his friends into it is just wrong and disgusting. If he were a decent person, he wouldve talked to u abt it, if he was hurt or offended by what u said he shouldve told u, not gone to his friends and started to insult u. Any person who does that is not worth it. My advice, dump him, it may feel terrible at first but ull realize that u just dropped dead weight and there are plenty of other guys out there who will treat u well and give u the respect u deserve and not talk **** abt u.
    Respect is EARNED, your not automatically deserving or entitled to it just because you are a Girl or someone's Girlfriend...She instigated it and he bit back, both are too blame
 
 
 
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