Like a guy but not sure if I find him attractive

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I've gotten back in touch with an old uni coursemate, who I was in some classes with for a year.

I hadn't seen/spoken to him for 2 years. At the time, I was seeing one of his friends for a couple of months, and we must have had about 2-3 conversations in the whole year. I always thought he seemed a nice enough guy, but just never really knew him well.

Anyway, for the last couple of weeks we've been messaging every day; although we haven't seen each other yet as I now live abroad and won't be back for a month.

However, I think I'm starting to like him. He's been flirting with me and telling me i'm pretty and stuff. I really like talking to him; he's very easy to talk to and we get on well.

However, I don't know if I'm 100% attracted to him. I mean this isn't the first time it's happened to me. Several of the guys I've liked, even my ex, I didn't really find them physically attractive at first, but as I grew to have feelings for them I grew to like their appearance more and more.

I'm also worried that he's just looking for a bit of fun; I've had enough of dealing with that over the years.

Should I give it a go with him? I think he is interested and I don't want to let him down/hurt him if he does like me but I just feel like I can't.

However, I just get butterflies now when I think about him, and really wnat to see him.

Should I try? Thanks
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Superdrilles
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it kinda worries me that he's your ex's friend which doesnt sound right.

you clearly like him if you get butterflies when you thinks about him so why not give it a go.
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what would you rate him out of 10?
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Anonymous #1
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thanks for the replies! Yeah.. with the ex thing, I mean I dated this guy for 2 months like nearly 3 years ago but it never became a serious relationship. Apparently he still speaks to this guy from time to time but that's all.. however I could imagine the ex being someone who would reveal intimate things.

I'd rate him 6? not sure really.. but yeah you are right, I obviously like him as I do get that feeling. I just confessed to one of my friends who knows him, who said he's cute and that we'd make a good couple! I think I will give it a go
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I'd give it a shot if you think he genuinely likes you and there is potential there. I am similar to you in that looks and physical attraction do not matter as much when you develop feelings and a strong emotional bond/connection. I am curious about how you both got in touch again after two years though.
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