It's just a reeling effect. You had a feeling of emotional and mental security around your ex. Now , that he's out of the picture , you're missing it. You'll probably find it again , once you confront your emotions or find another guy
It's just a reeling effect. You had a feeling of emotional and mental security around your ex. Now , that he's out of the picture , you're missing it. You'll probably find it again , once you confront your emotions or find another guy
Yeah that makes sense. Wish I could get it from within; it can’t be healthy to be looking for it in other people.
Yeah that makes sense. Wish I could get it from within; it can’t be healthy to be looking for it in other people.
There's nothing wrong with it , it's human instinct to look to someone else for emotional security. It's why the concept of "relationships" exists. Although , this emotional security need not just be with a significant other ; it could be with a sibling or a friend as well. Look for developing meaningful relationships with people you like, be it as friends or something more
There's nothing wrong with it , it's human instinct to look to someone else for emotional security. It's why the concept of "relationships" exists. Although , this emotional security need not just be with a significant other ; it could be with a sibling or a friend as well. Look for developing meaningful relationships with people you like, be it as friends or something more
That makes a lot of sense - I need to learn to open up to people better. Sometimes I fantasise about accidentally hurting myself, going up to a guy I like and being like ‘I fell over and it hurts’ while crying and he would comfort me as if I was 2 years old. Don’t know how that would play out in reality.
That makes a lot of sense - I need to learn to open up to people better. Sometimes I fantasise about accidentally hurting myself, going up to a guy I like and being like ‘I fell over and it hurts’ while crying and he would comfort me as if I was 2 years old. Don’t know how that would play out in reality.
You should talk to a professional about this. These kind of fantasies could lead to self-harm and fanatical behaviour