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(Original post by mollymustard)
I usually make the first move when I'm drunk...
In clubs, pubs bars etc.

When I'm sober I'm pretty introverted so I tend to get all placid and boring. If someone flirts with me when I'm out though, I'll probably flirt back a little bit.
OT but how many randomers do you get from TSR adding you on facebook?
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i wish more would thats for sure
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:ditto:
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(Original post by robinson999)
do women make the firts move in club as well
depends what you mean by the 'first move', I've made eye contact with guys in clubs etc and initiated the first move, but I doubt I'd actually go and introduce myself or whatever! I'm not that confident :p:
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In my experience, girls quite often make the first move. Unfortunately, they're often the ugly ones. I work in a club, and I get come on to a fair bit. Although that's probably just the pissheads being...well, pissheads.
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(Original post by buttons_andbeads)
depends what you mean by the 'first move', I've made eye contact with guys in clubs etc and initiated the first move, but I doubt I'd actually go and introduce myself or whatever! I'm not that confident :p:
i gusse that what i mean

some of as guys are not that confident

well i now i not that confident around girls in them sort of places
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(Original post by Sithius)
OT but how many randomers do you get from TSR adding you on facebook?
None?.... Why?
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(Original post by robinson999)
i gusse that what i mean

some of as guys are not that confident

well i now i not that confident around girls in them sort of places
Same here.

But then I tend to generalize in clubs and think that all males are just after one thing. Which from past experience a lot of them are :p: But I'm sure there are nice guys in clubs too - which are the ones who don't make the first move! Grr it all just goes round in circles
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(Original post by buttons_andbeads)
Same here.

But then I tend to generalize in clubs and think that all males are just after one thing. Which from past experience a lot of them are :p: But I'm sure there are nice guys in clubs too - which are the ones who don't make the first move! Grr it all just goes round in circles
lol i see what you mean, i a nice guy lol

i normal way to drunk though in clubs
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I'd make the "first move" to talk and say hey kidnda thing.. but i dont think id go any further..

Me thinks im too shy for that..
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I'm a relatively nice guy. But if I'm out on the pull, then of course I'm only after one thing... You don't go clubbing to meet 'nice' people (although that has been a side-effect...).
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(Original post by alasdair_R)
I'm a relatively nice guy. But if I'm out on the pull, then of course I'm only after one thing... You don't go clubbing to meet 'nice' people (although that has been a side-effect...).

what's wrong with meeting nice ppl?
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(Original post by HereWithMe89)
what's wrong with meeting nice ppl?
Nothing. But anybody who goes out to a night club to meet nice people is liable to be sorely disappointed.
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(Original post by Mush)
Is there a happy medium that anyone knows of?!
Yes. Don't go anywhere specifically 'to find a relationship'. Just live your life and see what happens. Also, don't think that somebody who wants to have sex with you isn't 'nice'. (Okay, so they're probably not, but in my experience, 'nice', means boring.)
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I never make the first move. I'm a social dunce and I find it impossible to tell "friendly" from "interested", so I just save myself the embarrassment.
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(Original post by alasdair_R)
Nothing. But anybody who goes out to a night club to meet nice people is liable to be sorely disappointed.
Hm, I guess, if ur looking at it that way.


(Original post by alasdair_R)
in my experience, 'nice', means boring.
well maybe u haven't met enough nice ppl.

or u havent met the nice ppl who arent boring.
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I'm too scared to!
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I've always been the one to make the first move, mostly because I'm quite confident and I've only ever been with shy types. I don't mind either way, so long as it happens.
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(Original post by HereWithMe89)
or u havent met the nice ppl who arent boring.
What makes somebody 'nice'?
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No.... a guy I was kind of 'with' told me he never ever made the first move... yet he kissed me first. I don't think i'd ever have actually made the first move... i'm too shy
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