Boyfriend masturbating to other girls

I’m staying at my boyfriends and he’s gone to work and I was on his computer and found his ‘wank bank’ which contained a lot of pictures of girls from our school from their instagrams, including a girl who I think he might be interested/cheating on me with, I don’t know what to do should I just accept it?

Reply 1

moopmeen

19

I would understand if they might be porn stars or celebrities... but girls from your school, that's just too far. I personally wouldn't accept this. You need to discuss this with him.

Dump him!

Calm down. This is how a man's mind works. Variety and familiarity get men horny, and neither you or him can change that.

Anyone saying to dump him doesn't live in the real world or just need to grow up.

Reply 4

PrazzPrazz

20

Original post by Anonymous

I’m staying at my boyfriends and he’s gone to work and I was on his computer and found his ‘wank bank’ which contained a lot of pictures of girls from our school from their instagrams, including a girl who I think he might be interested/cheating on me with, I don’t know what to do should I just accept it?

No confront him and dump him that is horrible

Reply 5

Jebedee

17

He does have self control, that's why he's just masturbating to them and not banging them.

Like I said, guys get off from familiarity. Thinking about an 8 you work with or go to class with will turn a guy on more than thinking of a random 10 he's never met. If he's a school boy then it stands to reason that school will be his go to area for familiarity.

Reply 6

UWS

21

Why do you think he is cheating on these girls? Has he given you any reason to think that other than jacking off to them?

Reply 7

CmonM8

9

tell him to stop sinning or perish

Reply 8

Jebedee

17

There are some things that most women will never understand about men because they worldview doesn't allow, and vice versa.

It's more healthy to respect a certain level of privacy. I.E not checking each others phones or reading each others diary etc

Reply 9

AndrewBlue

10

no no no no no no no no no no no ABSOLUTELY NO!

Porn with wife or girlfriend is cheating. Much have naturally more control over lust than women, and I can attest as being one myself. But the majority of men practice like 10 times less control than the average women. Dis freaking graceful.

GIRL, Face that unfaithful *****. Discipline or homelessness for him!

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

more common than you think

Reply 11

StudyJosh

15

This is the problem with stuff like this, I don't see how people can say it's okay if it's random, but it's not ok if it's people in their school. That's like saying it's okay to dox someone but it's too far to dox someone you know.

Either it's okay or it's not. Since you don't think it's okay, confront him.

Reply 12

CmonM8

9

forgive him and stop committing fornication

Reply 13

CmonM8

9

as a disciple of Jesus Christ the living God I say that you should act like nothing happened , forgive him and then end the relationship instead of exposing him which you're probably thinking of doing.

Then turn to Jesus Christ

Reply 14

Salehx3

2

That's just weird... it's disturbing that he's doing that to random pictures on instagram too..is that what people do?

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by UWS

Why do you think he is cheating on these girls? Has he given you any reason to think that other than jacking off to them?

Yes I’ve confronted him about thinking he’s cheating before because he flirts with other girls and texts them (that are in his **** bank) and still does even though I’ve told him how uncomfortable it makes me and he tells me to stop being crazy and laughs at me but then accuses me of cheating even though I never give him any reason to assume so

Reply 16

UWS

21

Original post by Anonymous

Yes I’ve confronted him about thinking he’s cheating before because he flirts with other girls and texts them (that are in his **** bank) and still does even though I’ve told him how uncomfortable it makes me and he tells me to stop being crazy and laughs at me but then accuses me of cheating even though I never give him any reason to assume so

Accusing someone of cheating when you haven't given them reason to is a major red flag. It's called projection and many cheaters use this tactic to justify themselves cheating by turning it on the victim.

It sounds like he doesn't care about your feelings, it might be time to reconsider this relationship.

Reply 17

Joannebest35

1

Emotional / physical connection, intimacy, maturity LOYALTY and Trust go much further than a boy who simply has no respect and can't contain his little boy urges. Maybe you need to take a good look at Yourself or maybe mummy needs to change ya nappy because that was a typical Bloke response. SHE NEEDS TO KNOW HER WORTH AND FIND A MAN not a child who clearly doesn't deserve to be in a relationship. If you can't be loyal and honest then stay single, **** around and your not hurting anyone. SIMPLE

Reply 18

username5445420

20

Original post by Joannebest35

Emotional / physical connection, intimacy, maturity LOYALTY and Trust go much further than a boy who simply has no respect and can't contain his little boy urges. Maybe you need to take a good look at Yourself or maybe mummy needs to change ya nappy because that was a typical Bloke response. SHE NEEDS TO KNOW HER WORTH AND FIND A MAN not a child who clearly doesn't deserve to be in a relationship. If you can't be loyal and honest then stay single, **** around and your not hurting anyone. SIMPLE

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