Do I still have to respect my parent even if they beat me?

God commands us to 'honour thy father and mother', that includes obeying them, respecting them, honouring them. notice he didn't say honour thy 'kind' or 'godly' or 'nice' father and mother. so whoever our parents are, God commands us to obey, respect and honour them.

if you're married, I don't think you don't really have to obey them anymore as the Bible describes how you leave your father and mother and become one with your wife, but you should still respect them.

He also tells parents to not make it difficult for their kids to honor them. It's not a one way street. Parents who abuse their kids don't deserve respect, imo.

so even if they sexually, physically and emotionally abuse you to the point were you wanna end your life you should still respect them. thats just wrong in every way

You don't have to respect anyone. Hit him back if he does it again.

Young girls and women are living in a culture where parents and family members have every right to abuse the female members in their communities. What is even more worrying are the responses here from young people who subscribe to this behaviour. Maybe this is what is expected in the country of origin, but don’t come here and think this crap will be tolerated. You may NOT batter your children. Brainwashing your children to believe that this is OK is immoral. As for this Allah business - are you actually saying that bashing another human being to within an inch of their lives will see some bloke called Allah meting out justice to violent abusers? I don’t think so. The OP fought back but many don’t. And you should not be telling her she shouldn’t. Just don’t have children if this is what they can expect if they live in your culture.

become a catholic

Catholicism has its own bad apples too. Every religion does.

My mowther comes from an ultra traditionalist catholic family, her father and his mother were a pair of violent fanatics who made her childhood a misery
Goaded on by his toxic mother, her monster of a father beat her unconscious and had her locked in a room lying on the floor in a pool of blood, when she told them she was going to marry my father- an atheist.
She was beaten so badly that the doctors though that she would be unable to have children.
Her own mother didn't participate in the violence but did nothing to put a stop to it or get my mother medical help.

My mother stayed catholic and still prays for her father- his soul and his forgiveness.
Her mother is an 80 year old religious fanatic who never uses violence but spews vile nonsense at anybody unwise enough to converse with her.

Both parents RC. 16 children and we all ended up in the care of the RC church. Across the board abuse. My mother, even when the stories hit the nationals about the abuse in the Church remained staunch to the Church even on her deathbed. I never met either of my parents but the facts came out after she died. Her religion came before her children. Unforgivable.

Catholicism has its own bad apples too. Every religion does.

My mother comes from an ultra traditionalist catholic family, her father and his mother were a pair of violent fanatics who made her childhood a misery
Goaded on by his toxic mother, her monster of a father beat her unconscious and had her locked in a room lying on the floor in a pool of blood, when she told them she was going to marry my father- an atheist.
She was beaten so badly that the doctors though that she would be unable to have children.
Her own mother didn't participate in the violence but did nothing to put a stop to it or get my mother medical help.

My mother stayed catholic and still prays for her father- his soul and his forgiveness.
Her mother is an 80 year old religious fanatic who never uses violence but spews vile nonsense at anybody unwise enough to converse with her.

As it is says in the Quran: do not even say ‘uff’ to ur parents also in Islam it is believed u should never walk in front of your father