I liked this guy for a few months and my friend and I would always talk about how hot he was. I was single, she was in a long term relationship. He was therefore out of bounds for her but she still appreciated that he was very hot.
I found it difficult to make a move because his best friend liked me and would always try and flirt and ask me out. I told him I wasn't interested but it still felt a bit shady to then go for his hot friend. I guess I was playing it slow, waiting for his friend to back off so neither of us would be stepping on his toes.
Two weeks ago my friend broke up with her boyfriend and within a matter of days, she started hitting up the guy we both thought was hot. It was fair game, I hadn't made a move on him yet so she could do what she likes. I kind of encouraged her as well because I thought it could take her mind off her breakup.
They've started dating now but I find it a bit awkward because I was the main one who kept going on about how good looking and lovely he was. So now if they become boyfriend/girlfriend, how can I not fancy him? Usually if you like your friend's boyfriend you just keep it to yourself but it feels strange because it's so out in the open.
She keeps talking about how much he likes her and I find it a bit uncomfortable because I did like him and she knows that.