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I always feel like I’m in competition with every girl

I’ve never been in a relationship before just pretty much a few flings. I’ve always been treated like a spare part and made to feel worthless, every guy I’ve dated has used me and has left to be with other girl. They always have lots of beautiful female friends and it kills me inside because I’ll never be liked by a boy when there’s so many perfect girls out there. No matter how many times I go to the gym or try to charismatic or funny it’s just never enough:frown:

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Erm, you are constantly in competition with everyone on just about everything.
Reply 2
Everyone is perfect in their own way and you don't need to change yourself for others just be confident with your body and there will be someone for you. xx
Reply 3
Original post by Zaspo
Everyone is perfect in their own way and you don't need to change yourself for others just be confident with your body and there will be someone for you. xx


No one ever seems to like me for who I am, it’s always more about how I look, they always disregard my feelings
Reply 4
Original post by random_matt
Erm, you are constantly in competition with everyone on just about everything.


I know but it seems like boys don’t even try, girls are so disposable to them
Original post by Anonymous
I know but it seems like boys don’t even try, girls are so disposable to them


Now you are just feeling sorry for yourself.
rule number one never compare your self to anyone else,it will destroy you ,focus on you x
"I’ll never be liked by a boy when there’s so many perfect girls out there"

Are they really so perfect?
Or are you just undergoing a "You're OK, I'm not OK" crisis of self-confidence?
Do all these so called perfect girls have

a prettier face than you
AND a better toned, more athletic body than you
AND are more intelligent than you
AND are better educated than you
AND have, or will have a better career / earn more money than you
AND are easier to get on with than you
AND are better in bed than you
AND have more hoesty and integrity than you
AND are wiser and better at making key decisions than you
etc etc etc.

I bet that when you analyse it, as an all round package, you are at least as good as all these so called "perfect" girls.
Reply 8
Original post by Dunnig Kruger
"I’ll never be liked by a boy when there’s so many perfect girls out there"

Are they really so perfect?
Or are you just undergoing a "You're OK, I'm not OK" crisis of self-confidence?
Do all these so called perfect girls have

a prettier face than you
AND a better toned, more athletic body than you
AND are more intelligent than you
AND are better educated than you
AND have, or will have a better career / earn more money than you
AND are easier to get on with than you
AND are better in bed than you
AND have more hoesty and integrity than you
AND are wiser and better at making key decisions than you
etc etc etc.

I bet that when you analyse it, as an all round package, you are at least as good as all these so called "perfect" girls.


Hmmm that only just reminded the reasons why they are better than me :frown:
lovely bit of intraspecific competition being displayed here........*dabs* #biologybanter *cries inside* 😂
Reply 10
It's your fault because you chose to date guys like that.
Original post by MarioVv
It's your fault because you chose to date guys like that.


Kinda savage but OK......
Original post by MarioVv
It's your fault because you chose to date guys like that.


Can’t help if men are trash 🤷🏽*♀️
Reply 13
Original post by Anonymous
Can’t help if men are trash 🤷🏽*♀️


You are dumb asf. No wonder those guys skeeted. I would have done the same.
Reply 14
Original post by Anonymous
Can’t help if men are trash 🤷🏽*♀️


Original post by Anonymous
Can’t help if men are trash 🤷🏽*♀️


A feminist storm brews
Original post by MarioVv
You are dumb asf. No wonder those guys skeeted. I would have done the same.


Well now I’m glad they did when they are actually trash
Calm down on the hate now there's no point
Reply 18
Original post by Anonymous
Well now I’m glad they did when they are actually trash


Then what the **** is the point of this post?
Original post by Anonymous
Can’t help if men are trash 🤷🏽*♀️


you tell him xx

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