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(Original post by Studentnewcastle)
I also do it with fingers because my sex drive is very high and I can’t have sex outside marriage
I also do it with fingers because my sex drive is very high and I can’t have sex outside marriage
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I'm a 20 yr old female and have a very high sex drive, it's got to a point where I have to use sex toys such as vibrators. I'm aware masturbation is haram but I have no choice
Has anyone else done this
I'm a 20 yr old female and have a very high sex drive, it's got to a point where I have to use sex toys such as vibrators. I'm aware masturbation is haram but I have no choice
Has anyone else done this
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(Original post by Anonymous)
dw about it im a muslim female and i do it
everyone has a test in life and will struggle with certian aspects of religion.
dw about it im a muslim female and i do it
everyone has a test in life and will struggle with certian aspects of religion.
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Hi. I’m also a muslim girl who masturbates but I don’t use vibrators to do it. What do you mean that you have no choice? I’ve learnt to not make public threads like this if it especially isn’t on ISOC because people will convice you that you should just do it. Take a cold shower, get busy and sleep early. I’m also trying to stop it.
Hi. I’m also a muslim girl who masturbates but I don’t use vibrators to do it. What do you mean that you have no choice? I’ve learnt to not make public threads like this if it especially isn’t on ISOC because people will convice you that you should just do it. Take a cold shower, get busy and sleep early. I’m also trying to stop it.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a 20 yr old female and have a very high sex drive, it's got to a point where I have to use sex toys such as vibrators. I'm aware masturbation is haram but I have no choice
Has anyone else done this
I'm a 20 yr old female and have a very high sex drive, it's got to a point where I have to use sex toys such as vibrators. I'm aware masturbation is haram but I have no choice
Has anyone else done this
I occasionally use dildos as well despite the fact is haram and they even sometimes go in my *******. just go for it and if allah catches you just bang him in his face
wa'alaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
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get married asap, tell your parents. Whats even more haraam is what you watch or think about when masturbating.
get married asap, tell your parents. Whats even more haraam is what you watch or think about when masturbating.
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Silly advice. Do you think marriage automatically deals with your sex drive? Ridiculous! Are you even married? obviously not!
Silly advice. Do you think marriage automatically deals with your sex drive? Ridiculous! Are you even married? obviously not!
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Are you a complete idiot? Of course marriage deals with your sex drive cos you have it on tap whenever you want it. The fact that you can't stop ******* just shows that you are unable to get laid so need to get yourself married!
Are you a complete idiot? Of course marriage deals with your sex drive cos you have it on tap whenever you want it. The fact that you can't stop ******* just shows that you are unable to get laid so need to get yourself married!
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Are you a complete idiot? Of course marriage deals with your sex drive cos you have it on tap whenever you want it. The fact that you can't stop ******* just shows that you are unable to get laid so need to get yourself married!
Are you a complete idiot? Of course marriage deals with your sex drive cos you have it on tap whenever you want it. The fact that you can't stop ******* just shows that you are unable to get laid so need to get yourself married!
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(Original post by Plantagenet Crown)
No, you can't tap whenever you want. What a gross and disgusting attitude. Your partner is a human being, not a sex robot who must submit to your pleasure at any time. It's clear you've never been married or in a relationship as you'd know there are plenty of times one partner isn't in the mood for sex.
No, you can't tap whenever you want. What a gross and disgusting attitude. Your partner is a human being, not a sex robot who must submit to your pleasure at any time. It's clear you've never been married or in a relationship as you'd know there are plenty of times one partner isn't in the mood for sex.
Many people who do this on social media would never ever do it face to face!
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I don't understand one thing. Scholars don't have solution to any problems. They are there for only saying haram and halal. If a person is not able to get married because of financial position or any thing else, if he only masturbates it will be haram. On the other side rich man can have 4 wives and while doing sex he will be earning sawab. If masturbation is haram and you cant get married give us the solution. You cant concentrate on any thing if your sexual desire are high. What should than people do in this situations?
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lol and you follow the rule of Law and trends in society that are completely wrong from a default position of morality, small sins like that can lead into much more
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(Original post by Syedshah8131)
I don't understand one thing. Scholars don't have solution to any problems. They are there for only saying haram and halal. If a person is not able to get married because of financial position or any thing else, if he only masturbates it will be haram. On the other side rich man can have 4 wives and while doing sex he will be earning sawab. If masturbation is haram and you cant get married give us the solution. You cant concentrate on any thing if your sexual desire are high. What should than people do in this situations?
I don't understand one thing. Scholars don't have solution to any problems. They are there for only saying haram and halal. If a person is not able to get married because of financial position or any thing else, if he only masturbates it will be haram. On the other side rich man can have 4 wives and while doing sex he will be earning sawab. If masturbation is haram and you cant get married give us the solution. You cant concentrate on any thing if your sexual desire are high. What should than people do in this situations?
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(Original post by Zak2003)
You should fast and make Tawbah to Allah to keep you away from this desire, it’s a natural occurrence but just try to remember Allah, also pray that you get married inshallah.
You should fast and make Tawbah to Allah to keep you away from this desire, it’s a natural occurrence but just try to remember Allah, also pray that you get married inshallah.
Marriage does not automatically deal with one's sex drive. Things are a lot more complicated than this. You really need to stop saying this until you meet up with a qualified married muslim counsellor before one gets married!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a 20 yr old female and have a very high sex drive, it's got to a point where I have to use sex toys such as vibrators. I'm aware masturbation is haram but I have no choice
Has anyone else done this
I'm a 20 yr old female and have a very high sex drive, it's got to a point where I have to use sex toys such as vibrators. I'm aware masturbation is haram but I have no choice
Has anyone else done this
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(Original post by Santi17)
I do masturbate sometimes in a week. . I feel that is sin.. But i can 't defend to not do that..
I do masturbate sometimes in a week. . I feel that is sin.. But i can 't defend to not do that..
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I’m Muslim: I smoke, drink, have sex before marriage, steal... its okay as long as you repent your sins by Jummah
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Literally this!! I feel like most scholars are so out of touch on modern issues and lack emotional intelligence. They make life so difficult when it’s clear that the sunnah of the prophet saw is not to make your life difficult. Like not everything is black and white, sometimes you have to give personalised advice. It’s like almost in every difficulty it’s a ‘test’ and you should have ‘patience’, literally the same words constantly circulating. Like I get this life is a test but it doesn’t have to be miserable. It’s a lot harder to get married these days because you have constant bills, it’s not like you can make a one off purchase on a house and have a few sheep yk. If you’re not established you’ll fall into debt and sin for mistreating your partner.
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(Original post by mgi)
This is a dangerous delusion that seems to beset some obviously unmarried muslins on these threads. It sounds like you are definitely not married.
Marriage does not automatically deal with one's sex drive. Things are a lot more complicated than this. You really need to stop saying this until you meet up with a qualified married muslim counsellor before one gets married!
This is a dangerous delusion that seems to beset some obviously unmarried muslins on these threads. It sounds like you are definitely not married.
Marriage does not automatically deal with one's sex drive. Things are a lot more complicated than this. You really need to stop saying this until you meet up with a qualified married muslim counsellor before one gets married!
I also agree with seeing a marriage councillor. So many divorces and marital issues would be avoided if you figured out your needs and differences objectively beforehand
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I am a Muslim girl, now 24 I committed zina as a teenager and till this day I regret it. My advice would be just do whatever you need to but do not go onto having sex prior marriage
I am a Muslim girl, now 24 I committed zina as a teenager and till this day I regret it. My advice would be just do whatever you need to but do not go onto having sex prior marriage
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