Guys I need help my life is falling apart Me and my girlfriend love each other so one day we had sex and she lost her verginity and now she’s lost and got mixed feelings and she’s leaving me and coming back and I’m really lost that I love this girl a lot I really want to marry her but she’s fighting a war in her head and I tried to help her but she’s pushing me away but later on she’s comes back to me so I really need help cuz we love each other
You can't even spell "virginity"
Guys I’m being serious we are 20 I’m just scared she goes and leaves me it’s the first time I ever did this and I really love the girl I’m not at point I’m not think straight or eating or anything I’m dying guys please I need help not making fun
From the sounds of things, she's been thinking about this a lot and now it's happened she's unsure of how to feel. She's got a lot of mixed feelings right now, she's not sure how she feels because she's going to be in her head a lot. I think what you need to say is something like this: 'clearly this has had a huge effect on you, and it has on me too. I want to support you but I'm not sure how to, so I need you to tell me if you need space, or if I can do something to help you through the way you're feeling.' Ask her what she wants you to do, because sometimes talking isn't always the best option, sometimes people need time alone to work through thier thoughts, I don't know her personally so I can't tell you which is the right way to react. I expect she's very confused, but you have to ask the right questions. 'Talk to me, what's upsetting you, how can I help, do you need space.' If you love each other as much as you say, the two of you can make it through this, so don't panic. Best of luck OP