South Asian Realationship advice Watch

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Hi i am originally from South Asia now living in the UK. During my early twenty, i went through a phase where i would go clubbing every weekend, abuse alcohol and consequently had one night stands with non-south asian girls. However i realized the error in my ways and now know the best way for a happy life is through arranged marriage or marrying someone of the same cultural background.

Would it be hard for me to marry someone from south Asia now, as many people expect you to be virgin until marriage? Would you guys/gals reject a marriage proposal if you found out they are not a virgin.
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Marshmello's Dad
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Please tell me how someone will find out that you're not a virgin
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(Original post by Marshmello's Dad)
Please tell me how someone will find out that you're not a virgin
Quite a legitimate concern 😂😂
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Ki Yung Na
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you're a guy so it doesn't matter, be good to women and carry yourself properly. everyone's doing it so it's cool
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by Marshmello's Dad)
Please tell me how someone will find out that you're not a virgin
When you enter marriage, you should have no secrets between each other.

By not telling them, i am breaking their trust
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(Original post by Ki Yung Na)
you're a guy so it doesn't matter, be good to women and carry yourself properly. everyone's doing it so it's cool
a bit sexist don't you think?
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Anonymous #1
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Any south Asian give their thoughts?
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if a girl asks about your virginity just be honest cos nothing good will come from misleading someone into a relationship
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Anonymous #2
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best way for happy life is through an arranged marriage? lmao
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for me i know a lot of south asian girls but they are not my type. but their culture and upbringing is similar to mine so i can relate to them more. so i need to keep searching regardless of weather they are south asian or not. i just need them to like me for who i am .
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There are many non-virgin South Asians you can marry.
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best way for happy life is through an arranged marriage? lmao
You can’t argue with the face that white couple or mixed race couples have higher divorce rate than south Asian marriage because of there culture
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(Original post by eveross00)
a bit sexist don't you think?
i'm only saying it how it is.

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Any south Asian give their thoughts?
i am south asian, the name is a pseudonym
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I'm south asian and I can name many marriages within my family that were arranged and ended in divorce so no arranged marriage is not the key to happiness
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(Original post by GalGirl101)
I'm south asian and I can name many marriages within my family that were arranged and ended in divorce so no arranged marriage is not the key to happiness
Would you marry someone who is not a virgin?
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Would you marry someone who is not a virgin?
Yes. Because the person I'm marrying had a life before me and is entitled to one
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You can’t argue with the face that white couple or mixed race couples have higher divorce rate than south Asian marriage because of there culture
most asian couples dont divorce cos the women are financially dependent and so they tolerate the abuse. white marriages are far more happier mate get it straight.
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(Original post by GalGirl101)
I'm south asian and I can name many marriages within my family that were arranged and ended in divorce so no arranged marriage is not the key to happiness
ikr. most of them are arranged and not love marriages. the women also tolerate so much abuse and violence but dont leave cos they are financially dependent on the man.
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(Original post by Ki Yung Na)
you're a guy so it doesn't matter, be good to women and carry yourself properly. everyone's doing it so it's cool
are you ****ing kidding? this is why i refuse to date asian men lmao you are so closed minded and sexist.
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are you ****ing kidding? this is why i refuse to date asian men lmao you are so closed minded and sexist.
Hey, Just to let you know, i am asian men and i don't think like that.
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