How particular are guys about girls&#x27; bodies in relationships?

Original post by Anonymous

I've always been curious. With everyone being bombarded with pictures of perfect bodies of both men and women, standards must be quite high.
So how fussy are guys about girls'bodies - say for example about stretchmarks, scars etc, when looking for a long-term relationship? For eg what if only late into the relationship you find out she doesn't have perfect skin or something? Is that a deal-breaker?

Looks aren’t a big deal to me and other guys. Just be yourself. We care more about personality and the kind of person they are.

Reply 2

black1blade

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Stretch marks and scars don't even give a **** unless they are super disfiguring and even then if it was somewhere on their body couldn't initially see, the initial attraction wouldn't be impacted so I still probably wouldn't mind.

Reply 3

Retired_Messiah

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Nobody gives a **** about your minor skin imperfections unless they make you look like 2-face out of batman.

Reply 4

X_exceed

13

I'd like to add that there are picky guys out there who might have an issue with say - stretchmarks.

Skin imperfections are fine. - can they be helped? Not really.

Being seriously overweight, probably is an issue for me - 99% of the time it says a lot about the persons lifestyle, which won't match mine, and the same with being very underweight as well tbh. Both show you generally don't eat or exercise properly.

FYI - a girl who isnt over or underweight and considered 'slim or normal' but smokes is also less attractive for the same reason, before anyone considers me 'fat shaming; because Im not. - its about looking after yourself and your lifestyle.

But as always, the answer is - it depends on the guy as we all find different things attractive and unattractive.

(edited 5 years ago)

Reply 6

It's****ingWOODY

Stretch marks, scars etc. aren't an issue for me at all. I'm not at all attracted to girls who are overweight or underweight, though. I can totally get with girls who are a bit chubby and I dig petite, but as I said, overweight or skinny is a turn off.

Original post by ProRoadman

Looks aren’t a big deal to me and other guys.

Speak for yourself.

Reply 7

math42

Only particularly particular guys are particular. Most guys aren't particularly particular at all.

Reply 8

Original post by It's****ingWOODY

Stretch marks, scars etc. aren't an issue for me at all. I'm not at all attracted to girls who are overweight or underweight, though. I can totally get with girls who are a bit chubby and I dig petite, but as I said, overweight or skinny is a turn off.

Speak for yourself.

I mean that as long as you average then looks isn’t that big of a deal.

Reply 9

It's****ingWOODY

Original post by ProRoadman

I mean that as long as you average then looks isn’t that big of a deal.

Again, speak for yourself :wink:

Reply 10

Original post by It's****ingWOODY

Again, speak for yourself :wink:

OK. Then it only applies to me. 🙂

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

OP

OP here. So what do guys usually expect though. Sure you might be okay with imperfections as you find out about them. But you must have some initial expectations right?

Reply 12

Original post by Anonymous

OP here. So what do guys usually expect though. Sure you might be okay with imperfections as you find out about them. But you must have some initial expectations right?

I’m totally fine with some imperfections. No one is perfect. Just as long as you are decent enough and you are a honest and nice person then that’s enough for me. 😊

Reply 13

Profesh