Boyfriend didn’t wish me luck before my surgery??

So i just had my first surgery today, i had 3 wisdom teeth removed. I’ve told my boyfriend many times yesterday and last week about the day and time of the surgery. He went to bed at 4 last night, he was just talking to his sister that’s it. because of this he didn’t wake up before my surgery to even say good luck??? he didn’t even ask me any questions about my surgery when i was telling about it to him yesterday. he didn’t even wish me luck yestserday. Then after my surgery he just said “good morning, let me know when you get back home”. that’s it. he didn’t ask how i am. he didn’t apologise for not saying good luck??? i don’t know what to do or say to him. this is quite a big deal to me and as a boyfriend he should wish me luck.

i think he should have said sorry for not saying good luck but he doesn’t understand

you said it was 3 teeth?

That's not very nice of him, your right to feel annoyed with him. He should have wished you luck in the very leafs

if you find that he's uncaring about other things and this starts to be problematic in your relationship, then it is a major issue and should be addressed.

but even this, if it is important to you, should be addressed with him - other people on here may or may not see it as a problem because we all have different things which bother us. communicate your feelings and tell him that you're upset because this surgery was something really daunting for you, but you felt unsupported and felt like he didn't care. i hope you're feeling better now.

He should apologise for not doing something which he didn't think he should have done? Seems ridiculous.
Don't know why you're hanging on to something so small and petty.

How long have you been dating?

he said he was gonna say it but he fell asleep. so it’s not like he doesn’t think he should have said it. he just did apologise for not saying it as i was expecting a text from him before my surgery. i just don’t like how angry and rude he got with me after i told him i was upset.

we’ve been dating for 10 months

So i just had my first surgery today, i had 3 wisdom teeth removed. I’ve told my boyfriend many times yesterday and last week about the day and time of the surgery. He went to bed at 4 last night, he was just talking to his sister that’s it. because of this he didn’t wake up before my surgery to even say good luck??? he didn’t even ask me any questions about my surgery when i was telling about it to him yesterday. he didn’t even wish me luck yestserday. Then after my surgery he just said “good morning, let me know when you get back home”. that’s it. he didn’t ask how i am. he didn’t apologise for not saying good luck??? i don’t know what to do or say to him. this is quite a big deal to me and as a boyfriend he should wish me luck.

actually 5 in total. you don’t need to swear.