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just lost my virginity a few days ago and intercourse still hurts. Why?

I lost my virginity a few days ago and I still feel pain when I have intercourse and I don't know why. is it normal to have pain or is there something wrong with me?
Your hymen might still be intact, was there any signs of blood your first time? Next time make sure to relax beforehand and use lube.
Original post by Anonymous
I lost my virginity a few days ago and I still feel pain when I have intercourse and I don't know why. is it normal to have pain or is there something wrong with me?


You're likely not lubricated enough. Foreplay is your friend and you can always use lube too. Try to be relaxed. It's normal.
I didn't bleed because as I was a child I fell and I think I broke it then
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It is likely you may have tearing, especially if you didn't use enough lube the first time, was that painful too? Take a few days off and if things don't improve go see your GP as you may have a sex condition but it's likely tearing or hymen damage from being too rough(not dangerous though x)
Also you're not used to it.

Perhaps give it a few days off and then retry.

Is it scratchy sore or achey sore? Is the pain in one particular place?

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