Should I send nudes for my gfs birthday?

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I (18f) posted about this yesterday (or maybe the day before, it's gone midnight so IDK).

I wasn't sure what to send my gf (also 18f) for her birthday and ruled out basically everything but a card:
Chocolate/candy/flowers/jewellery - she has dogs and if they get at it then... yikes
Some sort of grand romantic gesture or keepsake - we agreed to keep it subtle until she's out of her parent's house
Actual visit - too expensive, right in the middle of freshers week and we promised to visit a few weeks later, anyway
Cute video - her best friend beat me to it, and I helped her make it

She's said she'd like a card, and she doesn't want me to spend anything. We haven't had sx yet, and I'm planning on visiting her about a month after her birthday, during the October half term.
If I got her a regular sized card, and then I took some (tasteful) photos with me in lingerie or something and put it in a smaller envelope inside the card, do you think that would that work?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I (18f) posted about this yesterday (or maybe the day before, it's gone midnight so IDK).

I wasn't sure what to send my gf (also 18f) for her birthday and ruled out basically everything but a card:
Chocolate/candy/flowers/jewellery - she has dogs and if they get at it then... yikes
Some sort of grand romantic gesture or keepsake - we agreed to keep it subtle until she's out of her parent's house
Actual visit - too expensive, right in the middle of freshers week and we promised to visit a few weeks later, anyway
Cute video - her best friend beat me to it, and I helped her make it

She's said she'd like a card, and she doesn't want me to spend anything. We haven't had sx yet, and I'm planning on visiting her about a month after her birthday, during the October half term.
If I got her a regular sized card, and then I took some (tasteful) photos with me in lingerie or something and put it in a smaller envelope inside the card, do you think that would that work?
Seems a bit weird to me. I personally wouldn't do it or like it. But if your girlfriend will like it then do it.
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Brooo do what you like don’t listen to other people because they don’t know how is you and your gfs relationship so just do what you wanna do
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Sending physical copies of photos like that might come back to bite you in the ass in later life if you decide to split. It's a sad thought, but it's something you might want to consider. Why not use Snapchat?
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