should I stop making an effort with my friend?

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we've been friends for over 4 years and she was that friend I'd tell literally everything to & snap everyday but recently (about a month) she's barely been talking to me, doesn't carry on conversations I make etc. I spoke to her about it but she said she wasn't annoyed with me or anything but she doesn't really seem interested in conversation. we haven't been to the same school this year & she asked to meet up recently but you know when someone isn't interested in talking to you. sounds bad but she's not my favourite person (bit selfish etc but no one's perfect) it's just that it's nice having a close friend that you can talk to and I miss talking to her when she talks to me properly. so should I not make an effort and see what she does? Or meet with her and see how it is?
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we've been friends for over 4 years and she was that friend I'd tell literally everything to & snap everyday but recently (about a month) she's barely been talking to me, doesn't carry on conversations I make etc. I spoke to her about it but she said she wasn't annoyed with me or anything but she doesn't really seem interested in conversation. we haven't been to the same school this year & she asked to meet up recently but you know when someone isn't interested in talking to you. sounds bad but she's not my favourite person (bit selfish etc but no one's perfect) it's just that it's nice having a close friend that you can talk to and I miss talking to her when she talks to me properly. so should I not make an effort and see what she does? Or meet with her and see how it is?
If she doesn't make an effort then there's no reason for you to put in all the effort. I would honestly stop trying and see what happens.
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we've been friends for over 4 years and she was that friend I'd tell literally everything to & snap everyday but recently (about a month) she's barely been talking to me, doesn't carry on conversations I make etc. I spoke to her about it but she said she wasn't annoyed with me or anything but she doesn't really seem interested in conversation. we haven't been to the same school this year & she asked to meet up recently but you know when someone isn't interested in talking to you. sounds bad but she's not my favourite person (bit selfish etc but no one's perfect) it's just that it's nice having a close friend that you can talk to and I miss talking to her when she talks to me properly. so should I not make an effort and see what she does? Or meet with her and see how it is?
Dont talk to them for a week and see if they contact you.
If they dont then you have your answer
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