I am getting bullied and getting nowhere. Please help.Watch
Hi. I am sorry if I start to rant on a bit but my younger sister bullies me and I have had enough. I am to be going to college in a month and want this bullying to stop before I have to leave even though I am only going half an hour away to college. I want to be friends with my youngest sister like I am with my other younger sister. I am the oldest in the child house so I am basically the test subject for life. But I don’t think I should be bullied by my youngest sister. I have tried what I could. I don’t want to get into a physical fight in which someone gets hurt, either me or my youngest sister. I have gone to my parents but they don’t seem to truly listen or whenever they do intervene, as soon as they walk off, my youngest sister starts bullying me again and I don’t know where to turn to. When I was bullied in high school on the bus, I didn’t exactly have anyone there to help at that moment. I would have to go to the counselor’s office or to the principal the next morning. I did this multiple times but it never did anything to permanently stop the bullying. There was a camera on the bus but that didn’t really help. The bullying went on for 5 years. I would come home crying because it would get so bad. But it happened on the bus, a place where the only adult was the driver but he never saw anything. I was on my own. That was when I was most vulnerable. I had few friends that were on the bus but they didn’t try to stop the bully for self preservation reasons that I understood. But now I have graduated high school but am being bullied by my youngest sister and I am at another dead end. I have tried to tell my parents about her actions but nothing gets permanently done about it. I can’t just videotape her doing it. For one, she would probably notice cameras. For two, I don’t have the money for cameras. I just don’t know what to do. I have tried to look at it from her perspective by knowing that she is the youngest sibling, has the smallest room, can’t drive and gets almost anything her little heart desires. But not even that helps when I confront her. We have gotten into a physical fight before but the only time that I strike her is when she comes after me first, so it is in self-defense. So that’s my story with this. I have been told that when you meet a dead end it’s just a way for you to think of something new. Well, I am at a dead end with this and can’t figure it out. I hope one of you people out there can help me with this. Please help. Thank you for your help and time.