Girlfriend staying at other guy's house.Watch
She says he's just a friend. I know she wouldn't go behind my back or anything but still think its weird
What are your opinions on this?
My ex visited me, and her bf was a short drive away in the same town (almost) and she proposed staying over at mine - which I thought was a bit odd - and her bf clearly did too (without meeting me at least, but I didnt particularly want to meet him for obvious reasons and she made it seem like he expected me to go and visit - read pay homage to - him at a time that best suited him rather than both meeting somewhere neutral) as they had an mobile argument in her car. Then she went and stayed with him. I dont blame the guy, I couldnt figure out what she was up to - talking to friends it was either: wanting to see us both together so she could kind of compare us in some way, or she was playing mind games with me or him, or both of us.
Now that was wierd, really put me off the idea of being friends.
Anyway, back to OP - if there is any history of attraction or dating then I think its too much, but otherwise its unreasonable to put up much of a fuss. Even though it is different for guys because we know that there are plenty of male friends of hers who probably think about your girlfriend naked all the time.
When I go to visit my best friends (they live 3 hours away from where I now live & are both boys) I stay at one's house and sleep in his room (in a pull out bed of course) I'd never dream of doing anything dodgy because I see him as a brother and my bf was fine with it.
Depends on your personal situation, its when she doesnt tell you about these visits that you should be worried though!
You could try telling her that you dont like the situation much, but you do trust her so its ok?
Best thing to do is to just let her know your somewhat uncomfortable about it, its the best thing to do, because if you dont tell her then your paranoia will just build and put further strain on your relationship. Let her know you trust her, but you just dont trust the dude shes staying with.
She may not be physically cheating, mentally -perhaps. I've been the girl in the situation, try looking deeper into.
Otherwise it could just be nothing, if she has no history of cheating etc.
I later found out that she had infact made out with two of them.
But I'm sure your girlfriend is faithful...
Leave her alone. Jealously isn't attractive.
Jealously isn't attractive.
OP I suggest you tell your gf how uncomfortable you are with the situation, it is only natural to be. Why does she want to stay over, can't she just meet him in the day? Make sure you have all your questions answered, she needs to reassure you here.