Does she like me?

Please keep anon cause mate use this

Well just recently i have started chating to a girl on bebo, whos at my college, and shes best friends with a guy in my class, ive had a number of msn/bebo convos with her, and i face to face. I was meant to go to a birthday party where she would of been (only was going to go to get to know this girl), but i had to look after my sister that night.

Now we are on half term, shes invited me and my friends to go to see a her friends band, but my friends dont want to go, i toldher this she said i should come on my own. Also ask me to go clubbing on student night next week.

Im confused does she like me?
Wants to get to know me,then maybe she hopes the relationship to develop?
Should I go to the gig on my own?
Or Ask if she wants to meet up over half term?

Reply 1

MSB

17

Anonymous

i toldher this she said i should come on my own

Now that sounds good.

You should go to the gig. I suppose it might take a bit to go on your own, but the signs look good.

Reply 2

geo139

Looks like the green light! don't be to foward though, seems like she wants to lead how fast/slow this goes, but it does look like something!

Clubbing especially sounds like it, get in :wink:

Reply 3

xwoopwoopx

Definately go to the gig!!! sounds like she wants to get know you more :smile:

Reply 4

ßlαcksωαn

17

she's making an effort, organising stuff = she's interested

Reply 5

jammie08

very likely that she does fancy you, most girls wouldn't bother asking you out that many times and saying you can come on your own to boys they don't fancy..so it's a good sign..anyway, you should def go to the gig

Reply 6

dh00001

16

sounds like she does but it can be hard to tell. go and flirt with her, if she flirts back then its a cert

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

I will go to the gig then, and i will flirt abit lol

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

you can never tell if a girl likes you in 'that' way unless they say so themselve. Just dont get your hopes up. I did this week and she said shes not interested in a relationship and i genuinly felt ****. She is interested in sex though which im considering lol. Just try not to get your hopes up too early on .

Reply 9

MSB

17

Anonymous

I will go to the gig then, and i will flirt abit lol

Good luck!

Reply 10

floss

of course she ruddy likes you..

she's making an effort and most girls don't make the effort unless they like a guy!!

Reply 11

gemini_xxx

yh i think she does but make sure you have some sort of plan at this gig especially if it's you her and her friends you dont know, you could end up looking like a wolly (get to know her friends like straight away) this will also impress her. or is it just you and her at this gig?
good luck

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

its her and her m8s, im meetin her and her m8s on the train, gettin the train on my own, only 20 mins away still going scared cause only spoken 2 to the girl face to face once.

Reply 13

qubog

12

Anonymous

you can never tell if a girl likes you in 'that' way unless they say so themselve. Just dont get your hopes up. I did this week and she said shes not interested in a relationship and i genuinly felt ****. She is interested in sex though which im considering lol. Just try not to get your hopes up too early on .

Please don't. If you genuinely like her then you're just going to feel worse when she doesn't change her mind about wanting a relationship and ends up going out with someone else or something. Get out while its easy!

Reply 14

Barry Scott

I would come up with a witty answer...but I only have one warning left and I want to use it properly.
I think she like you.

Reply 15

Ashes_to_Ashes

2

I'd say she's interested, yes. :smile:

Reply 16

Barry Scott

Keep_it_Unreal

I'd say she's interested, yes. :smile:

I'd say you're wrong...

not really but i feel confrontational today

Reply 17

Ashes_to_Ashes

2

Barry Scott

I'd say you're wrong...

not really but i feel confrontational today

and you've directed it at me? :whip:

...

Oh Barry barry barry barry...
Have you read the message at the top of this forum? They're cracking down on spam in this forum you know. :p:

which could mean more warnings for young Barry.

Reply 18

Barry Scott

Keep_it_Unreal

and you've directed it at me? :whip:

...

Oh Barry barry barry barry...
Have you read the message at the top of this forum? They're cracking down on spam in this forum you know. :p:

which could mean more warnings for young Barry.

S-p-a-m? I don't know that word...It isn't in my dictionary... :confused:

Ignore Keep_it_Unreal...back on topic. I think she likes you, see where the activities take you; you may just mesh together in due course.

Reply 19

mr-breaker

7

Anonymous

..........Now we are on half term, shes invited me and my friends to go to see a her friends band, but my friends dont want to go, i toldher this she said i should come on my own. Also ask me to go clubbing on student night next week.

I was gonna say skip the gig if you don't really want to be there, but you've already decided to go.....enjoy!

If you're gonna go clubbing with her (and you should) see if you can grab a coffee with her an hour beforehand.....this gives you the chance to find out everything you need to know.....this presupposes that you didn't make a move on her at the gig, and you don't already have the information you need about her..........

Anonymous

Im confused does she like me?
Wants to get to know me,then maybe she hopes the relationship to develop?
Should I go to the gig on my own?
Or Ask if she wants to meet up over half term?

1) We don't know, we're not there..........but in this game of imperfect information, she's invited you out; she as a woman has made it EASY for you as a man to do what men do.......

2) Ask her! What do you want from her? What does she want from you?

4) This is fine, but by the time half-term comes you should already know where she stands with you......so the question is somewhat moot.......

Ganbatte! (as they say in Japan.....)

Does she like me?

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