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My boyfriend and i have been together for about 4 months. When i met him he was kind of seeing someone but trying to be with her wasn’t working.. he left her ... pursued me... and we’ve been together ever since. In the beginning of our relationship i had a problem with this particular girl because they were telling each other they missed one another. I eventually talked to him about that/got over it moved and here we are.
I recently found out she moved and was having a house warming that she invited my boyfriend to. My boyfriend is going but he hasn’t mentioned it to me nor has he asked me would i like to go. So, i brought it up to him and his response was “well she verbally invited me . I asked her the details because she didn’t give me a proper invitation.. I’m not staying but i will go”
TLR; do i have the right to be upset by him not mentioning it to me nor asking me to tag along?
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Given the background story, it seems odd that he's meeting her at her place and hasn't told you about it. How did you find out?

It would be interesting to see how he reacts if you asked him though. I would just keep an eye on his behaviour leading up to the day though. If he's acting more suspicious than normal than you should ask him.
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Imo, he should have talked to you about it as that's not the kind of thing that he should keep to himself.
Tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable and see what he says. It may be that he didn't realize how odd it seems to go to an event with his ex and not tell you.
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(Original post by UWS)
Given the background story, it seems odd that he's meeting her at her place and hasn't told you about it. How did you find out?

It would be interesting to see how he reacts if you asked him though. I would just keep an eye on his behaviour leading up to the day though. If he's acting more suspicious than normal than you should ask him.
Well it’s not like he’s meeting her alone it is a house warming
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Imo, he should have talked to you about it as that's not the kind of thing that he should keep to himself.
Tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable and see what he says. It may be that he didn't realize how odd it seems to go to an event with his ex and not tell you.
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Okay thanks
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(Original post by UWS)
Given the background story, it seems odd that he's meeting her at her place and hasn't told you about it. How did you find out?

It would be interesting to see how he reacts if you asked him though. I would just keep an eye on his behaviour leading up to the day though. If he's acting more suspicious than normal than you should ask him.
I work with her best friend she was talking about it and she asked me was my boyfriend going. And i said why would he be going so she told me her friend invited him verbally that she didn’t give him an invitation and she told me my boyfriend asked her when was it and what day etc... so it sounded like he wanted to know so he could come


Then she told me my boyfriend asked her was she going because his ex invited him
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