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I freeze up when near a hot women

Basically whenever a hot women or a hot girls sits next to me or is by me I get scared for someone reason. I try to avoid looking at them for someone reason, idk why. But I freeze up and probably actually awkwardly. I thought I’d probably grow out of it, but i’m in my early 20s and still do it and it’s reslly annoying, because I can’t process my thoughts properly. Any advice to help me?

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I do the same thing with boys.
:blushing:
Same thing happens to me with boys! I get so red and flustered 😭
I look just like the emoji
remember that their only human and their looks aren't some sort of achievement they were just lucky to be born that way
practice speaking to an anime body pillow

that’s what i did and it worked
They don’t even have to be hot I just freeze up when I see le boiz
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How do you freeze up when you see a hot girl? Shouldn't some of the heat transfer to you? Tf.
But in all seriousness, ease up when you're around hot women, they're just like anyone else, no need to stress.
Exact same thing happens with me, but to all women.
I get nervous, start sweating.
Get tempted to just start screaming and punch something, so I just walk away.
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Original post by Anonymous
I do the same thing with boys.
:blushing:


Yeah, idk why but it’s somewhat comferting to know the females do it to.
Original post by tammie123
remember that their only human and their looks aren't some sort of achievement they were just lucky to be born that way


That’s very true, thanks for that
Surely you should freeze up by cold women?
Practice walking beside them when you see them at shopping centres etc and you should get comfortable.

Relax yourself, think you are worthy.

Make eye contact with them if you walk past them.

Be your best self, It helps me when I go to the gym and wear nice clothes.
Original post by Analyst89
Practice walking beside them when you see them at shopping centres etc and you should get comfortable.

Relax yourself, think you are worthy.

Make eye contact with them if you walk past them.

Be your best self, It helps me when I go to the gym and wear nice clothes.


I do the bottom 2 but I feel like you summed up my problems in 1 sentence, that I don’t feel worthy. Now the more I think of it, this is 100% the problem, I feel like i’m not good enough even though I try my best to look good and stuff. Maybe it’s because I think i’m ugly, idk maybe I am
did you check if they freeze up with you too?

they prolly do though I can think of multiple possible reasons :colone:
What makes you feel worthy? Do you have a skill you are good at? Do you have an interesting hobby? Is there something that makes you unique?

You are worthy. You're just as good as anyone else.
Original post by Analyst89
What makes you feel worthy? Do you have a skill you are good at? Do you have an interesting hobby? Is there something that makes you unique?

You are worthy. You're just as good as anyone else.


Yeah, idk why I don’t feel worthy of talking to such good looking women. I feel like there is a disconnect that makes us different without getting to know them assume they don’t like me without even getting to know them.
Original post by Anonymous
I do the same thing with boys.
:blushing:

Original post by Anonymous
Same thing happens to me with boys! I get so red and flustered 😭


Well you'd turn into a statue if you'd see me then πŸ˜‰ (no im not Medusa)
Original post by TheJammyFox
Well you'd turn into a statue if you'd see me then πŸ˜‰ (no im not Medusa)


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Original post by Anonymous
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