My boyfriend is getting obsessive about me and i don't know how to deal with it Watch
We are no longer together but not for that reason.. anyway I managed to slow down the obsession/Insecurity a bit just by talking to him slowly and privately about the situation. I told him I was not comfortable about his emotions and that it was getting a little too much. His reaction was what I expected, you know being jumpy and asking questions about what I was asking and questioning the relationship but I kept reassuring him that I still loved him etc etc and that he should just be well "normal" in terms of the devotion to the relationship. Eventually it got to him.
Essentially I would try to quietly talk to him about the problem, dont push too much on to him instantly considering he seems really emotionally unstable, just take things slowly and hope for the best.
Take my experience how you want to deal with the situation. Hope the best for you xxx
My boyfriend is tooo in love with me and places me above everything, even his family. At first that sounded sweet but now it's really getting out of hand because he gets messed up bad even if we don't get to see each other for a day. He's emotionally weak, has major self inferiority complex, doesn't like spending time with his friends anymore and says he'll DIE without me. He can do anything to for me( or to make me stay), even if it means going against his own self-respect or leaving his family. He has made me his everything- his motivation, his family, his life. The thought of not being able to see me even gives him heartbleeds and makes him hyper af. It is because of this obsessive behaviour of his, that i feel like i'm no longer in love with him. Infact, this behaviour also manages to scare me sometimes. It's like i cant leave him nor do i want to stay. I'm really stressed. How should i deal with it?
Take him onto the Jeremy Kyle show, it'll be a laugh and you can make an AMA.