Fed up of life

I seem to be so stuck.

I spend practically every weekend sat in my room alone, putting off work i should be doing and just passing the hours doing litereally nothing.
Grown apart from friends as most of them have jobs,boyfriends etc.
Family just, well im on the bad side of them and keep hearing them talk about me.
I constantly compare myself to others, especially to the person i consider my best friend.

I know most people will probs say get out and join a club or something but ive bad self esteem/confidence issues and i really dont think i could do this.

Im getting to the point of where im spending plenty of my time in tears, feeling alone and honestly had had thoughts of ending things..though i could never go through with it.

Reply 1

Mr Ben

14

I can totally relate my friend, I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I am going to say that if you want somebody to talk to about it feel free to PM me.

Reply 2

Zoecb

11

You might have depression - see a counsellor?

Reply 3

pinky21

I totally understand how your feeling, its horrible and its not a nice place to be, especially when everyone else around you doesnt seem to understand. It's hard to give you advice as I dont know you, or your background, is there a particular reason for why you are feeling like this? when did things start to go wrong? if want to just chat about things or have a moan then PM me, sometimes it makes you feel better just to know that someone understands.

Reply 4

Elusive Prime

12

That certainly is a horrible feeling, I find it best to chat to parents etc. but that's me.

Reply 5

krisss

9

if you want to talk feel free to PM. I know I cant help you by just telling you what to do.

Reply 6

valentine_strongrod

Depression!

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

pinky21

I totally understand how your feeling, its horrible and its not a nice place to be, especially when everyone else around you doesnt seem to understand. It's hard to give you advice as I dont know you, or your background, is there a particular reason for why you are feeling like this? when did things start to go wrong? if want to just chat about things or have a moan then PM me, sometimes it makes you feel better just to know that someone understands.

Ive really no idea why i feel like this.
I suppose the friends thing has been going on for a while, and ive always had low self esteem/confidence etc which could possibly stem from when i was younger and was bullied and things.
Though in general things have just got progressively worse over the past year or so.

Reply 8

The One the only Tonk

I know exactly what your going through........ Its takes time for you to realise that its your life that your living..... Once you stop comparing yourself to others, things get better..... You just have to wait for your opportunity and not get distracted by others.....

Reply 9

Miss Monkey

10

I spent from about age 14 to 17 feeling like that, and I wouldn't go back to that time in my life for anything! I was overweight and very unhappy with myself, and felt jealous of people who seemed to be happy with themselves. I decided I had to change as I hated the way I felt, so I lost a lot of weight which gave me much more confidence. I can't say I'm always 100% happy about everything, but I'm infinitely happier than I used to be! Feel free to PM me if you think it would help. :smile:

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

Thank you everyone.

Miss monkey i can relate on that. I was always overweight growing up and in my own eyes i still am now. This is one thing ive told my 'best friend' but yet i seem to get blah comments about it anyway.

Fed up of life

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