I am 23yo and I have never had a boyfriend nor had sex. I know that this is quite an unusual case for the modern dating scene, but I really did not intentionally avoid dating or sex. I just can't seem to meet the right kind of guy who is sincerely interested in me. If I actually met a nice guy who genuinely liked me, I am open to losing my virginity, but so far that has not happened.
People around me are often surprised that I never had a boyfriend, and would comment that: "that's impossible, you're so beautiful! You must be too picky."
Honestly, I do think I am somewhat attractive. I may not be the hottest girl in town but i often receive compliments for having a sweet looking face and a nice body. But that might be the problem, since I am unusually curvy for a short Asian girl and my girlfriends often tell me that my boobs are distractingly big. But because of this, I am very self conscious and will try to dress in a classy way that does not draw too much attention to my chest area. Despite that, I still keep receiving interest from men who only want me for sex and not for a proper date.
I also don't think that I'm picky, since my friends often say that I have rather low standards in terms of visual appearance in men. I also don't mind just dating a guy to know him better - I do not need the guy to be instantly boyfriend worthy. I have also been told that I am friendly and easygoing, since I like to travel solo and meet new friends regardless of gender. So I do not lack opportunities to meet new people, it is just that these men I meet are purely sexually motivated. Furthermore, when they find out my lack of dating experience and virgin status, they only seem to be more sexually curious about me. On the other hand, the more decent guy friends often just say that I'm cute but do not approach me to ask me out.
I really don't know what the problem here, someone enlighten me?