Ever feel like curiosity/sensitivity makes you uncool?

Ever know that feeling where you want to ask about people cos you are curious and 'nice', and they find it a bit earnest, uncool?

I hate that I'm too nice like that

Reply 1

xXx Eloise xXx

Not really. It depends what you want to ask them.

Reply 2

SpiritedAway

yeah, all the time. sometimes i just keep my 'niceness (lol)' to myself, like if i see someone crying by the lockers, i think it's nearly everyone's instict to ask what's wrong, but you get right dirty looks as if you're prying. *shrugs* you can't help some people.

Reply 3

michaelnicholson88

Yep, you're trying to be friendly and helpful, and you have genuine concern, and they think you're just being a nosey blegger.

Reply 4

99p And A Flake

Not really, I've usually warmed to nice people who seem interested? Although I don't really ask those kind of questions, so maybe I've just never noticed all the nice people getting told they're nosy lol.

Reply 5

MSB

Being nice doesn't mean you ask questions all the time. It just means you don't talk about yourself all the time.

Discuss the weather.

Reply 6

SoSheDances

I think it's always better to try and help / be friendly towards someone and be snubbed than to ignore someone who'd actually really like to talk / have your help / would appreciate your concern if they're upset. :smile: