Have I got the wrong idea about relationships?Watch
If you just want the 'sweet' stuff without the sex, that's a 'best friend' relationship.
The above without a lot of the 'sweet' stuff (or at least, not as often), is mostly just a 'good friend' relationship.
If you want the 'sweet' stuff with sex, and for the long haul, that's called a serious relationship.
Almost anything in between is the casual relationship.
Everyone will have their own opinion as to what each relationship above should/shouldn't have.
Have you ever considered or thought about what you would bring to a relationship?
For example, here's a good article to read about it:
A lot of people ask what a relationship should have or what they actually want in one, but few, if any, ever talk about what they have to offer. :-)
for you its the sweet romantic things, for other people sex is an important part of the relationship, for some people its both things, for other people its completely different things. everyone wants different things from a relationship
now that you know what it is that you'd prefer you need to find a boyfriend who values the same thing
You should share special moments with your partner, like midnight chess.
You should do sweet, unusual, fun, interesting things together to break up the daily routine of life.
He or she should be physically attractive to you.
You should have mind-blowing sex (from the age of 18).
And in longer term relationships, you can have children and take delight and satisfaction in raising them together.