This has been going on for quite a few years now, I just want a true response and help.
I have a brother with autism and Adhd, and he always gets what he wants, at christmas, he ended up getting a gaming pc, and I got an £0.80 sketchpad, when they were spending £600.00 on him, I don't mean to sound jealous, and I know he needs special needs but this is happening even on my birthday, where he gets a handmade cake and I get a cheap chocolate cake from the local supermarket.
They've also started blaming me for everything, if I kindly ask him to clean up his cookery mess (because he cooks every weekend, a fortune in my opinion) , my parents start shouting at me and even ground me just for speaking to him, my dad has even said that I come downstairs to make him agitated, he's even shouted that I'm disrespectful. I've tried speaking to them, and they once understood but it carried on a week later, even when my brother hits me because of his disability, they don't tell him off and as a punishment they sometimes turn off one of ours Wi Fi, and I always seem to be the one who gets that 'privalege'. My brother even broke my ipad, and my laptop by downloading viruses on them, and they tell me to buy my own, however they seem to have all the money in the world to buy things for him.
I've tried getting concelling about this, but it's not working, the only person who understands me is one of my friends who I've known since 2016, and I am so grateful to her.
Another thing is, as soon as I get downstairs to eat breakfast, they start moaning at me explaining their problems, but then they blame me for everything, they've even said that if I wasn't so difficult everything would be alright, but I've tried to make them proud of me and the only way to do that is to hide in my room and not have an opinion on anything, just kinda disappear.
I don't want people to have a go at me about this, because It's a hard topic for me, I only chose to mention it here because there are people with the same experiences and I want to help them too.